when he said i was his luvly friend and i can't accept it.... but he said he cannot to lost me because i'm the best friend for him... and he cannot life witout me.... but i want more than that... being a couple and together.... share our love and spend more time together....should i leave him or be the best friend for him? i can't see him with other girl because he is my love....helpp me.....
2006-08-18 22:23:49 · 21 answers · asked by geecube 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
better save the friendship than to loose it all. You just have to accept the fact that al though you love him to much, you can not force him to love you in a romantic level.
If you really love the guy, you would let him be, for his happiness, inspite that it would mean a great sacrifice and pain for you.
2006-08-18 22:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to change the way he feels about you. So you can either live with being a good friend to him. Or move on if you can't be around him without wanting more. There is a good chance that he will have a girl friend that is not you. And you can either live with it. Or stay away from him. That's the bottom line.
2006-08-19 05:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him. If he then decides to still be friends just go with the flow. It will be good if you don't see each other for a while then; just to get your head cleared. Maybe then he would see what he has been missing all along. But don't lett him take advantage of you just because he knows how you feel about him. If he decides to still be friends GIRL you have to trie had focus your attention on something or someone els!
2006-08-19 05:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,if u really like him so much,u should talk 2 him.try 2 find more about his feelings 4 u.he might not think in the same way as u.as far as the other girl is concerned,try 2 b with a friend whom u can tell about this matter as she/he may be able 2 stop u from doing something stupid at that time
2006-08-19 05:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by tnjshrhy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just be a frends for him.if u can't see him with other girls out ther..then u might be love him.and i think u should leave him.he is not interested in u and not going to be with u forever. he has his own special lady...dont be too silly to look after him all the times..
remember he is not the only guys around this planet.
2006-08-19 05:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true Friend is rare to find. If he cares for you and wants you in his life as a friend, you should think twice before saying no.
And, by the way, you should improve your English.
2006-08-19 05:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him straight.u cant ever force some1 to love you neither can you love him only as a frnd once you fell for him .so better part n get rid of complexities in life
2006-08-19 05:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by spandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure what you're saying, but if you have feelings for him that he doesn't return, and you can't get over them, then you have no choice but to bow out of his life.
2006-08-19 05:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being best friend of some one you love is not realistic leave him find some one that he love you in return , you need in your life more than friend ship.
2006-08-19 05:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sasoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him what you are telling us,,, if it would hurt you to see him with someone else,, then being his friend wont work at all....tell him how you feel, and let him know that you can settle for just friends,,all or nothing,,,,unless you want to be hurt,,,,,,,,,,,,but if it will hurt you to not even have him as a friend, then you got to keep it to your self just incase he chooses nothing,,i dont know, just speak from your heart
2006-08-19 05:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋