I like this girl that still in love with exboyfriend he treats her bad, hits her. I talk to her we been talking almost 4 months told her i like her alot she tell me she dont love him any more. almost every night we chat in messenger she tells me everything when she feels bad or down im always there for her telling her sweet comment, been there for her when shes down. she says she affrid to love some one agin her exboyfriend hurt her and every time i talk to her i tell her sweet stuff and she like it my question is
do you guys think im been to nice to her she wont like me or is ok been there for her or dont pay attention to her to much?
2006-08-18 22:02:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should start being friends first. Doing things together as friends and not put too much pressure on her if she's not ready.
Let the relationship grow from friendship first.
2006-08-18 22:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Levels, First off why is she hanging around with her X b.f.She know by now that he will only beat her-up.I wonder if shes afraid of this bastard?? If she is she need someone to help her get through this mess.No,i think you are a very nice person and maybe able to help her through this terrible abuse.It sounds to me she is trying to trust you and i think she likes you to.Just do what you are doing and be there for her.
Clowmy
2006-08-18 22:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's one thing I learned over the years (the hard way). For some reason, women like to be treated like crap. Maybe some women can tell me why, but they all seem to want a nice guy, but stay with someone they always complain about.
2006-08-18 22:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry d00d, but it sounds like you are a "nice guy" which earns most guys a one-way trip to the friend zone, and your tickets are not refundable.
Despite what women say, a woman's true preference for guys is indicated by the kinds of guys they date, not the kinds they actually say they want. I think this girl has made it clear what kinds of guys she is into.
2006-08-18 22:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some time.keep being a good friend to her.she knows ur interested.mayb some part of her is afraid that ur being nice to her only coz u hav a crush on her.show her u can b a good friend and person over some time and it ll work out
i.e, if u really care abt her,otherwise b a good frnd and look for other girls to date
2006-08-18 22:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by sharath1186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive and let her come around its a tough situation to come out of. I've been there and done that. Just get her away from that jerk! Just support her, its a hard change. To trust and love again is a whole other issue. Good luck! and be pacient
2006-08-18 22:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Foxy_chicka_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's more afraid to get in a relationship with you because she doesnt want to go through the same thing with you as she did with her ex. what you need to do is show her how much you really like her and how much you wanna be with her, and also show to her that you won't treat her like her ex. try to get her to trust you, even just being there for her when she really needs it helps out quite a lot.
2006-08-18 22:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl will always be drawn tward bad guys.
Stay friends with her and find another nice girl to spend your life with.
Sorry,just fact.
2006-08-18 22:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being nice is great but don't be too nice then u will seem needy and that is totally unattrative.
2006-08-18 22:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋