the marraige style, and that is never daiting,and fixed marraige between the groom and the brides perants,the bride sees the groom then talks to him for few days at her home or engaged for few mounths tell she decides,then tell her perants her answer wich is yes or no to marry him, and if its yes there well be 5 celebrations:
1- to ask for her hand infront of her family and his family(the closest members),
2- to make a party mostly for the relatives of the bride and a little of grooms close relatives.2-3 hours
3-a partty called"henna"wich is for speciall cultural people.
4-the big day, the huge weddding party and the candels and the mens speciall dance and the wedding stays 3-4 hours .
5-a small party after wedding were the relatives of the bride gives the bride money as a gift.
and ya i forgut about the mens party wich happens at night out side drinking only coffeand doing speciall dancing, and cutting the grooms hair as a new life beggining
i saw all 6 of the,beautiful,nice
2006-08-18 22:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by ayala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yes i like that style alot ..
I knew I loved you before I met you
I think I dreamed you into life
I knew I loved you before I met you
I have been waiting all my life
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yours
hazem
2006-08-19 00:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. Marriages fail everywhere, arranged or not. It seems a pity though to promise to spend your life with someone who you do not know, that is real faith. And to live the promise? That is real faith in action. I think it is also playing with Lady Luck, like playing poker. If you are dealt a good hand, you win and if not, Shucks! In this case the families arranging the marriage are relied upon to have the common sense to produce the best results for their offspring bearing in mind that marriage is a lot more than just lust. There is something positive to be said about this way of marrying. For sometimes we confuse lust for someone's body as love and give ourselves up in marriage for this. And the end story, heartache and divorce. But which of the two is worse?
I like the old african way: girl sees boy,boy sees girl, they like each other, boy goes and chats with aunt of the girl for aunt of the girl knows girl well, aunt visits boy's home gets to know boy, if boy is not good or boy's home is not good (not good people in the society) aunt discourages boy and girl, if all is good, aunt encourages girl to see boy and acts as chaperone, aunt then arranges for boy to meet mother of the girl and the last one to know is father of the girl, girl is never entirely alone with boy but has privacy from aunt.
But then again this has faded out.
2006-08-19 13:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that style! There's nothing worst in life than an arranged marriage. You only get to live one life and you're stuck with the person you don't love. How bad is that? I'm sure glad I'm in the USA!
2006-08-19 05:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahah..that would make things a lot easier, wouldn't it??
2006-08-19 11:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems the real question here is..do u?
2006-08-19 05:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by sharath1186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋