what do you think about the saying "age aint nothing but a number"?

Question

well see i really like this guy but the thing is hes a lot older than me but we're both at the same maturity level.its illegal too though.hes 23 and i;m 15 and i know it would sound like hes completely trying to just do stuff with me but he's known me for a long time &he knows im not gonna gofar withhim & he's fine with that because we follow thesame morals. now..everyones opinions seem to differ and i was very against dating himat first.i even said no 3 times to him but we;ve stayed good friends &for some reason i keep falling for him.i guess because most guys my age are very immature &dont want a real relationship. the biggest issue would also be my friends.they all are very much against it &his would be too but we discussed it & he says he doesnt careandwe couldsee howthings go &then tell ourfriends but idontwanna hidestuff fromthem. now..im at a point where i dont know what to do because i really like him alot,heslike a bestfrend tome &he understandsme betterthan myother friends.

Answer 1

You are too young, "18 aint nothing but a number"? Then wait.

Answer 2

i dnt agree with the saying.im 20 n my boyfrnd is 28 n i dont have any prob with the age difference.i think if u both think alike,do care for n really love each other then it is fine.age is no bar.but what u want is known to you better than all of us.n for ur frnds,i think u should decide your priorities in life.if u can be firm n true to a decision other things just become ok with time.u cant satisfy every1 alltogether.u r too young now.ask him to wait for some more years so that u can take a matured decision.but 1 thg,most imp,if u cant see ur future with him n not totally sure,dnt waste his time.

Answer 3

Excuse me you are 15 and he is 23 and you are both at the same maturity level. No way girl. That is B.S. you are saying so you can date him.

You should not be dating a 23 year old man. You are missing alot of the fun stuff 15 to 18 year old do.

Don't date him.

Answer 4

Hi Umm hi, You just answer your own question at the end of you letter. He's like a best friend and understands you better that your friends do.Just be friends and go out once in awhile for dinner or a cup of joe.Deep down inside of you,you really feel like friends and nothing else.

Clowmy

Answer 5

Age is way more than just a number when someone is underage. Keep him as only a friend. Then once you're 18, you can date if it's still something you both want to do.

Answer 6

Before you go any further, check with your local police department. Every State has a registry for convicted child molesters and pedafiles. Don't be shocked to see his name on that list.

Not to say there is anything wrong with you....I'm sure your attractive.....but he's a LOSER!! If he came near my younger sister I'd have to hang him by his eye lids and kick him in the nuts until he blinks!!!! LOSER!!!

Answer 7

since you are 15 and he is 23 that is very illegal. but when your 18 there is nothing wrong with that. im 27 and my bf is 36 if that tells you anything.

Answer 8

he may very well be a really ncie guy but i think you should introduce him to your parents as you are 15 and he is 23. i think it is best not to hide the fact that you are seeing him from your friends. he sound slike a nice guy but you need to keep yourself sae and let your friends and parents knwo where you are and who you are hanging out with.

Answer 9

i`m 16 & with a 24 yr old.. it`s not like the best idea, but if you`re happy, then go for it.. if it`s going to cause a lot of hassle in your life, then do what you think is ok. if your parents are fine with it, then good for you! lol.. my parents would kill me if they knew i was actually sleepin with this guy! haha

Answer 10

alot of people say that, but when it comes to the law i would obey it to protect you and him. Keep it simple, if it was ment to be he will be there when you turn 18. Just be pacient.