I just got home and am tired but kinda wound up from my date, it was good but I had a hard time worring my ex would be around. I feel like I was cheating on him, I haven't even talked to him in weeks. is this normal or should I start packing for the luny bin?
2006-08-18 21:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just put ex out of your mind, doesnt help to worry about what he thinks....
2006-08-18 21:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Luny, If he is your X why are you worring about him showing up where you are!!! And i don't understand ,why you feel like you are cheating on him.I would say,this is the luny bin,but something isn't adding up hear.I think you are still in love with your X.You need to find out if you have a second chance with your X.If you don't you will beable to move on with your life and not think about your X anymore.I really hope i help you.
Clowmy
2006-08-19 04:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't measure yourself up for the straight jacket yet. You obviously have feeling for your EX. As you should you put alot into the relationship. Breaking up is not as simple as "ok lets breakup". It is rather painful. But you are doing well by seeing other people. This will help you move on. You are not cheating, you can only be considered cheating if you have a relationship? You should be honest with the next person you are with, and if your relationship is pure, he will be considerate and understanding.
2006-08-19 04:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to feel like this if you just broke up. Why would your ex be around? you need to tell yourself that you still have a life and part of that is moving on. The ex was not right for you and now you want to find someone who is so don't feel guilty.
2006-08-19 04:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by tweetyb_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, at least if by ex you mean someone you had a real relationship with. If he's just the guy you slept with most recently, you need a trip to the funny farm.
2006-08-19 04:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was the only one who felt this way!!! I think it is hard moving on, but i is nice to meet nw people. I always tell myself this, My ex is just that for a reason, she is not coming back nor am I going back..If you beleive you are a good person, you deserve to beb happy with someone who is going to make you complete. feeling guilty is a natural process I think, eith time and new surroundings, I think this can be overcame!!!
Good luck to the both of us....
2006-08-19 04:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by O Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he shouldn't be worried about running into your ex. After all he is your "ex". You have a right to do anything you please, you are a single woman, and can date whomever you please. But it is normal to have some feelings, for an ex. It sometimes just takes a little time to put them behind you, and move forward into your life.
2006-08-19 04:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still messing around with your ex? If not then what do you have to feel bad about, sounds normal but you need wait to fully move on before dating if it effects you negativly like this.
-NmD!
2006-08-19 04:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he's your EX then he's your ex. There's nothing to worry about. You guys broke up and now you're on your separate ways. Don't feel bad.
2006-08-19 04:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, forget about ex's, otherwise, you will be packing yourself off to the loony bin!
2006-08-19 04:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋