My bf if five years wants to move to NC. He told me a week ago, and he plans to leave in the beginning of september. He said if I want to go, then I should hurry up and not take too long. But today in the car while he was dropping me off at work we began talking and said he wanted to live with his cousins for a while, who both btw live with his grandma in her mobile home. I think that's unfair for two more people to be there I told him, that's when he told me that that's why he didn't want me to go when he left. He wants me to wait here for him to call me and tell me he wants me to come. He said he wants to hang out with his cousins and go have fun with them. He told me about going with no time to go when he does on purpose. Now he's mad at me because I heard me telling a girl at work what happened because I was in tears when I came in. I needed to talk to someone, and he walked up behind me when I did that. Now he say's I'm a bi%^h for that. How can you leave someone you love?
2006-08-18 21:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He went to spend the night at his brother's house tonight I guess he's so upset at me, who do you think has more of a right to be upset? He said he wants me to go, but is that really fair of him not to wait for me to get things together, and make me want three months or more without seeing him? And there is no reason he has to go that soon, NONE. No job, family emergency, nothing. He has all the time in the world. He just says he doesn't like it here anymore. That's his reason.
2006-08-18 21:26:21 · update #1
I would not wait for him...
2006-08-18 21:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he wants his own space for awhile and if that is what he wants then you should give it to him. You need to let him know that while he is having his freedom, you will also be enjoying your freedom. Put the shoe on the other foot and see what his response is. If you aren't getting much of a response, then I hate to say it but, relationship is already over. So bottom line let him go, the more you fight it, the more he is going to turn it all around on you as being at fault.
2006-08-18 21:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not that in to you! I think you should just let him go by himself. Most of the time when they say "stay behind and I'll call for you to move" that means "I'm leaving town w/o you because I want to go party and I can do whatever I want w/o the guilt, and don't wait for me to call you because I'm sure I wont." Sorry to break it to you but he probably wants to break it off with you. You should just tell him to kick rocks, and go have fun yourself!!!
Good luck!!
2006-08-18 21:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by smoothsophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋