So I've been friends with this guy for about a year now and I'm pretty sure I like him. He talks about how he doesn't have a girlfriend and he wants one and stuff but doesn't notice the girl right infront of him. Almost all the guys I've gone out with before I end up not liking them once we are going out. So I haven't gone out with anyone for a year. I think the reason I stopped liking those other guys is because I didn't know them well enough before going out with them. But I know this guy pretty well so maybe it could work out with him. I have no idea if he likes me or not. I don't know what I should do. Should I tell him that I like him or what? Please help.
2006-08-18 21:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by Kellerz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go Bold and tell him Face to face he has to respect that and if he likes you then things will be great and if his a good friend he will say well i dont feel the same way but still be friends with you and now he knows and he might start thinking hey shes kinda cool maybe i do like her!
2006-08-18 21:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes the best relationships start as great friends. But be careful of rejection, it is an unfortunate by product of the occasional misread...if all else fails, have a couple glasses of wine and blame it on the booze!!!
2006-08-19 04:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by O Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him. Show him! For we all know that action speaks louder than words. Although words are also quite necessary, but in your case better for you to just show him, unless of course the guy is already matured enough to take your words. Coz if not, you might appear to him less "catchy" for lack of words to describe. Well, whatever your heart tells you, go for it, but please consult your brain first. Nevertheless, be yourself pal :) Lastly, let me leave you this poem:
Risking
Anonymous)
To laugh is to risk appearing fool
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental
To reach out for another is to risk involvement
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self
To place your own ideas, your dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss
To love is to risk rejection
To live is to risk dying
To hope is to risk failure
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing
The person who risk nothing, does nothing, has nothing and is nothing
He or she may avoid suffering and sorrows,
but he or she cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live
Chained by his or her certitudes, he or she is a slave
He or she has fortified his or her freedom
Only a man who risks is FREE
2006-08-19 04:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by silts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want the right thing just wait and try to see his feelings about u and dont be busy cuz everything will be ok>>>>>
2006-08-19 04:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him immediately before he gets away!!! You'll hate yourself if you lose him before you've even had him!!!
I'm so dumb sometimes about women..that I miss the signs too...
and just wish they had told me...
2006-08-19 04:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
share your feelings with him
2006-08-19 04:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋