What is the best way to woo or get a woman to become attracted to me? She's stole my heart. I need advice terribly. Please help.
2006-08-18 20:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it totally depends on the woman's personality and what she finds attractive....My recommendation to you...some how find out what her favorite flowers are...and send her a bouquet of those flowers...with a secret admirer note. In the admirer note write how, why or what about her makes you think she stole your heart... and sign it secret admirer...I am sure that will keep her smiling all day, and wondering who sent them.
Then perhaps a week later, you can send her another flower or card...and tell her you find her attractive or something...and sign it with the first letter of your first name. (i.e. ~J~) and slowly begin to reveal your self..and perhaps in like two weeks or so you can ask her to meet you at a nice restaurant for dinner. Make sure to bring the same type of bouquet of flowers you first sent her...and hopefully your romance will blossom.
If you need any more help or advice let me know...you can email me or IM,...but let me tell you...it would be easier to give advice if I knew more about the situation and what she and you are like.
2006-08-18 20:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell her so? Just pick a right moment - preferably kinda private and as relaxed as possible - on a weekend trip, when just the two of you go out to see the sunset, or at a party, when just the two of you go out for some fresh air. Don't attack her in a large crowd or when she's busy or tense or has something else really important to think about. You can also simply gather your guts and ask her out. Chocolates and flowers are a guy's best friends on these occasions. But don't overwhelm her. If you say "You stole my heart, I'm dying without you" and start to cry, she will very likely freak out. Just be more casual - tell her you like her, and maybe, if she gives you a chance, you two could be up to something real big and beautiful. But let her catch up with your feelings. After a while, saying "I can't live without you" will sound much more natural.
I wish you luck and - hopefully - lots of happiness to your and your lady!
2006-08-19 03:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriele G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u just say so?tell her that u like her.whats the point to wait long.after that u will know the answer.see whats the reply from her.just be u self.dont flirt to her and dont do too much plan just to win her heart like romantic candle light dinner..send a flower or what/thats so terrible for me.i like the guys who talk freely to me ..and i do like guys who is funny to talk to.they can make my life happy all the times...
2006-08-19 03:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her alot of attention, listen to her when she talks, have a good sense of humor, be fun to be around etc.......
Tight jeans and a nice goatee dont hurt nuttin either!
2006-08-19 03:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a chemistry between 2 people. one person can't do something specific or say something specific to get someone's love unless it's genuine. so don't ask advice, just be yourself. if it's meant to be, it will.
2006-08-19 03:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staunt baby boy get you goodest clothes,fliest outfits and start practicing on how to approach when time right ask her man.
2006-08-19 03:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you post yourself on here? Lots of guys like you! lol
2006-08-19 08:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, be yourself (be real) and listen to her when she talks to you......Even if your not really paying attention, act like you are.
2006-08-19 03:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to do all special things that u can do.and all the things that she likes.
2006-08-19 03:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by ASH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self...
and tell her you really like her
and see how you go...
good luck
2006-08-19 03:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋