2006-08-18 20:26:05 · 29 answers · asked by El Luigy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Congrats on taken the next step ... being nervous is normal but remember how much the person you are marrying means to you. You will have a lot of joy and there is nothing better then being married to your best friend. As well, during any crisis knowing that you have someone to lean on. I married my best friend a year and half ago.. we have gone through a year deployment and two weeks yesterday a loss of a child. But he always finds away to make me feel loved, special, beautiful and needed. I couldn't imagine a life without him and that is what you will have in return. Marriage is amazing .. and simply should be treasured.
Congrats again. Hugs Mel
2006-08-18 20:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going on the assumption that you really do love this woman, so what you are probably feeling is an old case of cold feet. Yes you should marry her. Don't worry, just do things to not think about it ((and yes I realize that will be hard to do)) but go for a drive and clear your mind, think about all the great times you spent with her and how much you care about her. I trust you will make the right decision.
2006-08-18 20:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold feet? When the pool water is cold, what do U eventually do? U jump in. Consider ur dating testing the water. It wasn't so bad, quite frankly, U liked it so much U proposed to her. It's never too late to turn back, but do U really want to? Ur about to turn a new chapter in ur life. There will be good and bad times. Learn from the bad and savor the good. Just remember to cherish one another and never allow anyone or anything to jeopardize what U have. Good luck and have a happy life.
2006-08-18 21:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want you to imagine something real quick.....Just think...there is a woman out there right now....dying to spend the rest of her life with you!!! People are constantly searching for that special someone to spend a lifetime with......just think...you've already found her!!!! Why would you want to risk letting go of that person who made you ask her to marry you in the first place!!!! In a few hours...she will be walking down that aisle toward YOU!!! Soak it up.....the day is yours.....Just remember, "Today you will marry your best friend....your companion and true love..." Good Luck...God bless and congrats!!!! P.S.....it's o.k. to be nervous!!!
2006-08-18 21:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has jitters about getting married. It's a huge step for anyone to take, but try to relax and enjoy a day that will unite you and the woman you love. You're very lucky to both love and to be loved, and just take each day as a blessing. Just smile.....and congratulations!!!
2006-08-18 21:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by AFL lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww bless wedding nerves lol of course you should you love her ! dont think to much into it just enjoy your big day it will be great and if it doesnt work out in the end well then you just get a divorce simple as that good luck hun your be fine! go get her!
2006-08-18 20:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not a game. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and two people become one through marriage. If you truly love her and you are willing to look after her... then DO IT!!! If you love her smile, the way she walks, eats, or sleeps or the way she looks at you into your eyes, then there's no doubt that you LOVE her.... Just marry the girl!!!
2006-08-18 23:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Wordoftruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Is your life better for knowing her? Are you attracted to her? Then full steam ahead. Just remember communication is the key. There will be times you might not like her very much, but if you love her, you can work it out. I wish you the best.
2006-08-18 20:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know to your self that you really love that person with all of your heart and you also know that they are one you would want to spend the rest of your life well i say "go for it" good luck and congrats wishing you both a happy life together :)
2006-08-18 22:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! Don't do it!!
What's the point really, to have a piece of paper??
If you guys rally love each other that won't matter anyway, a marriage certificate is not going to be the glue that keeps you two together until you die.
2006-08-18 20:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Marlene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋