whenever i say something bad about how i look?? he wants to talk more about how i feel about myself and stuff to make me feel better but would talling him every single thing make things better???? make ME less self consious when im with him or more??????? idk
2006-08-18 20:19:47 · 13 answers · asked by LIZARD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE HONEST WITH HIM. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE A REALLY GOOD GUY THERE IF HE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. IF HE MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF THAN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM. BUT DON'T ASK HIM SOMETHING EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY. MAKE SURE YOU SHOW HIM HOW MUCH YOU APPRECIATE HIS SUPPORT!
2006-08-18 20:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kristy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open communication is a good foundation to build a relationship on. Talk to him and maybe you both will learn something about you. It may take away the self consious feelings knowing that he know you and doesn't care about anything but you!!
2006-08-19 03:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No are you crazy don't tell him you think your ugly !! Not seriously anyway. Girls say that just so guys will say they are pretty. Ok I think I dont look good but thats now why I say it around my boyfriend. It will make him think you have a low self confidence and thats never a good thing. Just tell him you like his compliments and chances are he'll give you more...and hey thats always a good thing !
2006-08-19 03:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that you can tell him every little detail then go for it.It may bring the two of you closer to one another and strengthen your relationship
2006-08-19 03:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should be there to encourage you and all, to give you all the support that you need in facing any challenges in life. Its good to tell him at least like that you're not facing the challenges alone.
2006-08-19 03:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say things about yrself to him. putting yrself down in anyway in front of yr partner will make them feel like you have low self esteem and this is not the thing to do. read more on dating on this site
2006-08-19 03:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is there to talk to but he can't make you better. you need to start thinking positive about yourself and not rely on him to make you feel better because what if you break up?? you can't rely on yourself to make yourself feel good.
definitely talk to him but i think it can get annoying from his point of view. trust me, i did it and i ended up relying on him to make me feel good but in the long run nothing was achieved until i did something about it.
2006-08-19 03:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by brooksta3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is the same way... but i love him and i tell him everything and honestly by telling him and talking to him it makes me feel way less self concious...
2006-08-19 03:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Monkey_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't like to hear girls complain about there looks all the time. that's what you have girl friends for.
2006-08-19 03:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him
2006-08-19 03:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by dragonman343 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋