im 14 teen and im a virgin is that bad
2006-08-18 19:58:58 · 31 answers · asked by corey r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-08-18 20:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by steven 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. You'll know when your ready when you don't worry about getting a girl pregnant or worry about getting a sexually transmitted disease. Remember those things can happen no matter how carefull you think you are. When you do think your ready talk to someone you trust and not neccisarily a friend cuz alot of times they don't know any more than you do, go to someone you know has the answers, eg: parents, if talking to them is uncomfortable then try teacher u trust or go to a sexual health clinic. And ALWAYS use protection, leaving it up to the girl could leave you both in trouble. I hope this helps sweetie :)
2006-08-19 03:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by booti92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Corey...14 is WAY TOO YOUNG to be having sex...you have to be ready to take on responsibilities of any consequences that may occur from having sex. Disease and pregnancy are grown up things a 14 year old cannot handle on their own.
2006-08-19 03:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your a minor. Screw Peer Pressure, sure that was my year but I never judged my friends like that. Ever seen "The 40 Year Old Virgin", a movie. Just be yourself.
2006-08-19 03:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by yacheckoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Quite the contrary. You will find that you will ultimately be happier if you don't "lose your virginity" but rather "give it" to someone that you have strong feelings. You don't necessarily have to wait until marriage (unless of course you are deeply religious, but then you wouldn't be contemplating this anyway).
Don't be in such a hurry...you will have plenty of time.
2006-08-19 03:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by halosfan2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not bad. At 14 its good. Wait a while and you will get laid so dont worry about that stuff now. It will happen. Dont worry over it or feel bad about it. Enjoy your childhood as long as possible.
2006-08-19 03:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by cassie_sweet_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, that's gonna be one of the greatest things when you find that one person you are going to marry - you'll be glad that you haven't yet lost it, and I'm sure your girl will be, too.
Keep it up. In about 20 years, it WILL pay off even though the temptation can probably get overwhelming.
2006-08-19 03:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg 4reeealz!! lol haa
j.k well um im 14 nd a half nd i aint nd most of pf tha pplz arent nd so isnt mah 11 yr old cuzin...well it takes time 4 sum ppl 2 do it..nd sum jus kant wait nd try it...so if u dont want 2.its okay!! so dont wrry on wat others say..untill u feel like givin it up then go ahead.8)
2006-08-19 03:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no in fact its excellent! u should take ur time and not rush into anything. when ur ready and u find some one special ull know. just hold tight and keep doing what ur doing. im proud of ya!
2006-08-19 03:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ofcourse not... trust me keep your verginity till you find the right one i got abused weni was 8 and didnt have a chance to choose wh i lost it to
2006-08-19 03:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points im sorry i dont know what 2 say
2006-08-19 03:02:37 · answer #11 · answered by twins4evva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋