i had a boyfriend named terrence hewas 16 and he died around my eigth grade field trip june 6th 06 i am 14 and his funeral was taken on june 10th after my luncheon i miss him so i just wondering anyone loss a girlfriend or a wife, husband.
2006-08-18 19:57:50 · 27 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes a friend of mine Sheldon i think we had to be 10 years old i remember sitting at the dinner table after school eating dinner the weather was really bad we had a lighting storm and it was bad but my dad broke the bad news to me he actually got struck by lighting i think he was outside and got under a tree when the storm started but i was so very sad for a long time and as a matter of fact still terrified of lighting.
2006-08-26 19:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear. I lost my friend when I was a Sophomore in college. I had lost great grandparents and uncles and aunts I never saw, but this was different. I learned a few things though.
Good people that die and don't believe in Jesus can't go to Hell, people who think that can go to hell themselves. Good people will be taken care of.
Find a good friend to talk to.
Get it out, if you bottle it up you will only suffer more and heal slower.
Give yourself time. When I was done grieving the first week I was exhausted. More tired than I had ever been.
Do something fun for an anniversary. Our friends would always go hiking or bowling to remember our friend. It commemerates his life, but isn't a sob story.
Take advantage to reconnect. I never saw my grandfather in the home before he died and I regretted it so badly, I still do. I made sure to be at my grandma's bedside and my uncles. Like the saying goes in Magnolia. "The Regret...the Goddamn regret" You can't get rid of regret.
2006-08-19 03:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've lost several friends and relatives. I have lost a best friend in the war, I have lost my ex boyfriend to a train accident and I have lost a few friends from car accidents and a few friends from overdosing on drugs and alcohol. I miss them all very much, and I think their mistakes is what keeps me strong, not to do the things to jeopardize mine or anyone Else's lives that loves me as dear as I loved them. Just hold your chin up, stay strong that is what he would want you to do. Love him and cherish the memories that you two had always and forever. Remember how much he loved you and still enjoy doing the things that both of you have done together...And don't ever give up talking about your memories...they are great...and you'll always have good stories to tell about you two. Its hard, and will be hard...but it does get a little easier to talk about it and to deal with it. I know when I was 10 I lost my mother due to a violent car wreck and she went quickly. I didn't understand death at the time, because no one ever really talked about it. Than I lost my grandmother when I was 16 from an anurisum, and my dad when I was 21, due to emphasemia, I felt like everyone that I ever cared about and loved was dying on me left and right, and thought since they were, I should too, I was a young mother of 2 daughters and their dad wasn't treating me right...So I thought about suicide...I never acted on it. I was too scared to, I loved my kids too much to leave them behind. There are times that I still believe that I should've been the one to go not any of them. Now I am with a diffrent man and we have a daughter together, now I have 3 and I'm so happy that I got to mourn over my family and friends and still living in our memories and cherishing every moment. I know they are all happy for me and I know that things would've been greater if they were around, but I know that they are watching over me and my kids...so I live on. You will get through it, alls it takes is one day at a time. Take Care and God Bless!
2006-08-26 14:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends daughter died, Samantha was her name she was born prematurly and was kinda tiny for her age she was about 2 when she died. Her mom left a bucket from mopping the floor and my Sammy fell in and couldn't get out and drowned. I still love that little girl from the day she came home from the hospital I kinda bonded with her she didn't want her mom and dad just me I would have kept her but I was only 16 or 17 at the time
2006-08-19 03:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by funnychic30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I'm so sorry. Yes, I lost a boyfriend. I'm 17 now. I got together with him when I was 13, he died when I was 16, he was 17 and and was taken from me about a week before Valentines Day in a car wreck. I really loved him, and I still miss him a lot. I mean, I was with him for 3 years. It really hurts when you lose someone so young.
2006-08-19 03:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many. And all were pretty young, under 25. My friend, Regina, was murdered by her step dad when we were 12. Sam and Pete had wrecks and died. My oldest friend's mom died recently. I loved her like a mother. I had a friend who died on New Year's Day. He was an identical twin. Those are only the ones I can think of right now - it's 2 a.m.
2006-08-19 03:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I lost a wonderful female friend (originally from college) in 1982, from a heart attack. We were just friends, but we were very close, and we understood each other, and we could talk about anything with each other. She was extremely intelligent, and she had once worked in the World Trade Center. To this day I still miss her earthly friendship. The consolation is in knowing that she is in a much better place! Seriously!!
2006-08-27 02:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a very very dear friend when I was in 10th grade ( over 30 years). We had talked on the phone just before he died. I still miss him to this day. It is normal. I just remember the good times and that helps.
2006-08-22 18:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by suzanne_sauls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone you love is one of Life's Greatest Transitions we all must go Through! Memories is all we have to live by once someone we Love passes on to the new World. What you must remember is that, when he died, he died knowing that someone like you Loved him for the person he was. That's more than anyone can ever ask for! Be happy for him and yourself that he is free of all Pain and You were there to the very end. Secondly you owe it to yourself to move on in his memories and be the very best you can, as his friend and as a Human Being. Good Luck and thanks for asking. Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-26 07:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm so very sorry for your loss, it's hard dealing with death at any age, but at such a young age as yours it's just very sad. You have my deepest empathy.....as for your question, yes, I lost my best friend, a boy who was like a brother to me, when he was only 18 back in 1981, I was a year older, married and pregnant with my second child when Dale's brother accidentally shot him, but instead of getting him medical help, Terry, in a drunken panic, dumped Dale on the side of a farming road to bleed to death. I still miss him more than 25 years later. God Bless You Honey.
2006-08-19 03:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋