Everyone in your group of friends has had there first kiss and you havent and all the guys wont go out with you because they think you wont kiss and make out with them just because you never have before and they think you dont want to?
i go to a private school and my group has about 10 or 12 girls and there is a limited amount of guys about 6 or 7
2006-08-18 19:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear, dear. your make me remember when we were your age. worrying about dating while all our friends did. After many years you will be proud that you were not a cheap girl. They can't kiss you they don't go out with you because in their age these boys are looking for experience and sex. It is not about feelings it is about knowledge. Most of them they don't enjoy it even. why don't you wait till you find a guy and have feelings for him and have a nice relationship you remember till you become old. Don't u dream of it instead of giving yourself to anybody? and suffering after a while for seeing him with your friend. wait dear u still young.
2006-08-18 19:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, your gonna be a dedicated follower of fashion? Your in a private school to get a better education than the average girl and your following the crowd? If you were my child i would send you to public school and save a bunch of money if thats the education you seek. Fool everybody and graduate at the top of your class, then find a boy who wants an educated wife, not someone who knows how to follow the breeders only.
2006-08-18 19:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never date a guy who wont give you a chance becuase you wont make out with him, cmon you are worth more than that. It is your choice whom you give your effection to, advertising that you want to make out in order to get dates will only hurt you in the long run.
How do they know you have never kissed a boy, why would you tell every one to begin with. This is yuor personal business, its nothing to be ashamed of. When you are ready, you will find the right boy to "make out with"
Take it slow, everything in life doesnt have to be rushed.
2006-08-18 19:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by chicata25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This school is not the be all and end all of your life. It is just a learning insitution.
Don' t worry about what others think, just follow your own convictions.
The day you let the thoughts and feelings of others dictate what you do in your life, is the day you start being unhappy.
When you do have your own life, it will be yours and no one else's, and you will want to keep it that way,
2006-08-18 19:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your ready, that's when you know you should have your first kiss. As far as getting that coveted first kiss, show initiative and show the guys you'd like to date without coming off as if you want to go all the way. Just choose your first carefully.
2006-08-18 19:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats mean...from the part of the boys....
A kiss definately OK.... say no to sex part......take things slow...
I'm a boy ..... I would love to take girls like you out..... even if there is no kiss or no sex......
Boys in your school are thinking so low and cheap
2006-08-18 19:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u should find a guy outside of ur group of friends and try to meet a new guy its just a suggestion
2006-08-18 19:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just not ready yet. dont let ANYONE push u into doing some thing u dont want to do and if they cant respect u enough to understand that then maybe they arent very good friends. just take ur time and when ur ready ull know it. just take ur time.
2006-08-18 19:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how old are you, like, 12?
Anyway, you should practice kissing with your girlfriends when you have sleepovers, so when you're with a boy you'll know what you're doing.
2006-08-18 19:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by koresh419 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't.a kiss is ok.but if these boys are wanting more than a kiss just back away and let the other girls fulfill their premature needs.
2006-08-18 19:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by sunkissed299 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋