Why do women treat "nice guys" like they are wussies or something. Do women like to be treated like crap? Maybe thats the key to attraction and dating? Lemme know what yall think.
2006-08-18 19:27:22 · 16 answers · asked by Fort Worth, TX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dear, women look for gentlemen. who doesn't like nice guys? please don't change based on one experience. But i am telling u girls love surprises. Love the man who brings action to their life. They like to suffer a little, to worry about your feelings, to try to understand u. be nice but don't be an open book. Be lovely but don't tell her everyday that u love her. try to surprise her sometimes but don't show all your feelings. This is the key. she likes to tell her friends about u and ask them what do u think he meant, or does he love me? wait till you are sure of her feelings to let her know yours. Good luck. wish u the best.
2006-08-18 19:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Women do not treat "nice guys" like they are wussies or something unless these guys are like that already. Do men like to be treated like crap? Of course not and neither do women. Bad guys don't even place as they are on top of the world, alone, unrespected, and still totally out of touch.
2006-08-18 19:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly what is a "nice guy"? The same goes for good women. Most men want bustdowns. Even if they marry a good girl, they cheat with a bustdown. So maybe its a funny, opposites attract, situation. People have issues and many times don't feel like they are worthy enough to be with someone who treats them with respect. Many times they don't feel comfortable because they don't know how to operate unless there's some drama. For example, if a woman grows up thinking that all men cheat, she's going to supsect even a good guy of cheating to the point it damages the relationship. The same with a man, if he grows up feeling like women are beneath him, he'll never get a good woman, because they respect themsleves too much to be with someone like that. So, my suggestion to men, is stop looking solely on the outside of a woman and get to know her before you go further. It'll save you a lot of trouble.
2006-08-18 19:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzybinature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that but you just got to be yourself. Most women want someone balanced, a man they feel safe with physically and emotionally. The failure happens when nice guys become a$$holes from feeling like they always finish last. Its not the placement of the race it is whether or not you finish, and nice guys do finish and often end up in happier and longer lasting relationships as well.
-NmD!
2006-08-18 19:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with nice guys is that they let themselves be taken advantage of, and no one takes advantage of you without you're own permission. Once a woman realizes what a dormat the nice guy is, its over. They start losing respect. It's all about self cofidence, and women love to see that in a man.
2006-08-18 19:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think a big thing with women is they like to feel protected and have their man in charge. If you are a nice guy, most likely you are too nice to stand up for yourself, take control, etc etc. Women like strong men to take care of them.
Now if you are a nice guy who can stand up for yourself and your woman, then i think thats the perfect kind of guy they want..
I'm a guy so i could be completely wrong but I feel pretty confidant im right.. any ladies agree?
2006-08-18 19:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by BMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice without being a wuss. If you are treating her kindly and she treats you lousy, don't tolerate it. Dump her and don't settle for any woman that doesn't meet your criteria.
Never settle for second best. You deserve the best and you may have to look for awhile. No rush, but don't allow any woman to attempt to treat you badly.
2006-08-18 19:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just a stupid saying.... the key is to be a man in life. and by that I mean be a strong provider, a good husband, and a good father, a man takes care of his family and lets no one get between him and his family not his mother not no one. and the man that makes his woman the queen of his home will be the king of the castle she will respect him and worship his man hood because she will see him as her mate, her companion, confidant, her lover her everything and he will finish first every-time.
2006-08-18 19:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugly people and pushovers finish dead last.superficial yet true.looks attract but personality is what keeps someone around.
it seems like these "nice guys" are also dumb for allowing women to treat them like crap."nice girls" are just as dumb for staying with jerks.the key is to find someone that appreciates you.
2006-08-19 13:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by polly-pocket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are friend material not Relationship material. they want us around to cry on our shoulders when the jerks they go out with screw them over. We get to hear about sex but are not good enough for sex because we might care about the one we are with. and GOD forbid that.
2006-08-18 19:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋