even though im in an unhealthy relationship, i continue to try and pursue something i know isnt there? ive been seeing this guy who (in the beginning was great) is flat out rude to me and told one of his friends that im just his "friend with benefits." i like to think that he'll change back into the guy he was 8 months ago, but in my heart, im know this is probably the "real him" and he had just put on that show in the beginning to make the catch. i continually keep getting myself hurt more and more each time i talk to or see him, but i cant seem to pull away. i still have feelings for him and love him (not to be confused with being IN love). why? i know he doesnt appreciate me for who i am, so why do i keep making myself the object of ridicule and hurt?
2006-08-18 19:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by justlivinglife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have abandonment issues,and very low self esteem. Cut off the booty for a while and see what happens, your not going to leave him as long as he shows even mild interest.Force the issue and try and take what happens to heart.
2006-08-18 19:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants to break off the relationship, but is scared. He acts like a total jerk so that he can get you to break up with him so he won't feel bad or guilty.
2006-08-18 19:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet a counseller
2006-08-18 19:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by sanju b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get self-esteem training
2006-08-18 19:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FEAR
2006-08-18 19:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by heyboo134@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋