im 14 and hes 14 and me and him been going out 4 6 months and we in love but he needs time to think cuz he said i treated him like a dog and he treated me really good. i need help.....wat does dat actually means???
2006-08-18 19:06:36 · 19 answers · asked by Monii 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He's breaking up with you in what is most likely the only way he knows how. I know you were in love, but trust me--you'll find someone even better and in a few months will wonder why you were ever with this guy to begin with.
2006-08-18 19:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by trailerparkmedic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're only 14 so my guess is he's not sure about you for right now and probably wants to pursue other people. In other words, it's just about over for you two. If you're really into him I would advise you to leave him alone. As hard as it may be for you...if you question him about it he's only going to be more annoyed with you...and you could push him away, or at least to the point where he won't be able to tolerate you. You said he thinks you treat him bad...maybe you should take this time to think about how you treat him and try making some adjustments....it sounds like it may be too late....but you never know. Sometimes in the game of love you have to fight for what you want, but play smart. Give him his space and try to ignore him if he calls you...that'll have him trippen on what your doing with this time apart...and if you can reel him in...know now that your in panic mode of losing him so if you get a chance at him again consider treating him better, if you want to keep him! I wish you luck....I used to tell my girlfriends when we were in high school "Guys are like buses, they come and go every 15 minutes, so if you miss one, you can catch the next" sounds like you really like this guy though....again good luck!
2006-08-18 19:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Marisa Lizette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he broke up with you. Both of you are only 14 years old. You have plenty of time to find a decent guy. Try again when you turn 18.
2006-08-18 19:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Susan L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think you are in love but he isn't. Time to think means "poof---be gone"! And if you really did treat him badly, learn your lesson for the next guy. And move along. This guy is trying to break up with you and not hurt your feelings.
Give him credit for that.
2006-08-18 19:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means it's over but you have itstill in your hands ie if you start behaving a bit considerate of what he wants to tall you ,like you could go for a long walk in some tension free evening like saterday and talk over your prolbems
2006-08-18 19:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by yocool! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs his space. The leash must have been too tight and he needs it loosened. It could also mean he wants to go with other people.
2006-08-18 19:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is getting scared of how serious your relationship is becoming and he needs some time to see if that is what he wants.
2006-08-18 19:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat means start looking for new boyfriend
2006-08-20 07:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by tootsie45414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he was just using u and leaving u but dont worry u are still so young you'll have way better relationships in the future
2006-08-18 19:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has another girl on the side and he wants you to wait around until he finds out if she's worth it.
2006-08-18 19:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋