I saw the love of my life today...?

Question

5 yrs later and it was like nothing had changed, we looked into one another's eyes and cried, hugged n held hands. He told me that he is still in love with me. I dont know y he said that. Here's the kicker he's been with this girl for 7 yrs. We met in high school he and her were on and off again (2yrs), and we got together and fell in love. She made him promise one week after they first met that he would never leave her... he promised and is afraid to leave her now bc he's afraid she will kill herself if he does. She knew what went on with me and him, she also cheated. She forbade him to see or have any contact with me, even though he and I would like to be friends. Whenever she hears my name which is a commoname she breaks down into tears (maybe because she knws he still loves me). I've never asked him to leave her, bc I knw that it would be devasting if he did n she did something to herself. This was both of them's first relationship n they just dont know how to let go. Im sad &torn

Answer 1

let it go. if was or wasn't meant to be, it means GOD has other plans for you. sounds way too complicated ~~ and how do you know that he is telling the truth and not lying to you?

Answer 2

This is so very sad, however this guy must never stay with her because he fears what she may do to herself, the chances are that she will get over it ! If she doesn't, is he really prepared to waste the rest of his life and his chance of real happiness because of her instability. It is almost like mental blackmail. Whatever you do though please do not cheat on her with him, he needs to follow his heart and decide who he loves, you or her, if his answer is you then it is morally wrong, for whatever reason, for him to stay with her. She must be crazy to want to be with a guy who she knows loves someone else. Surely this guy must be able to see that even if he can't get together with you that he should NOT be with this enotionally unbalanced girl.
I wish you and your love so much happiness and I hope that you don't throw away such a special relationship, you will both regret it forever. Maybe a good idea would be for him to split with her, then wait a few weeks before getting together with you, in this way she won't think that he's leaving her for someone else.
Please keep us informed. :-)

Answer 3

it relatively is a no longer common one to respond to. as a results of fact i think of of myself has only having been in love as quickly as. nevertheless I now no longer love him. i'd be very shocked if I have been to stroll into him. issues did no longer end properly. i does not comprehend what to declare to him. At one time I purely needed revenge. Now that I now no longer hate him. I haven't any clue as to how i'd react.

Answer 4

well i think you should stay out of it..it will only make things worse and more complicated..i mean if things dont work out with them and they just break up thats 1 thing...but if hes only having 2nd thoughts about his gf because he ran into you thats another...i would stay away and if it was meant to be then he'll come to you and it will be alot easier because things will be resolved between the 2 of them without you being in it...it sounds like she really cares about him and if he does love you then they need to deal with that alone without you being involved

Answer 5

He has to walk away if thats what he wants to do, if she threatens to kill herself he needs to contact the police and let them handle her situation. If it was meant to be it will be, you cannot stay with someone just becuase they may hurt themselves if you don't.
-NmD!

Answer 6

ohhhh, you are stuck between.
is the other girl doing this purposely or is it true??? if it is purposely then you should ask the boy to talk to her and make her understand that it is not going to happen and no one is going to be happy and if she continues that she is going to ruin the life of three people...
you have to talk to her

Answer 7

study self-esteem!