would u love your mate if they got sicker than they were went u got together?

Question

and u was in your 40's your wife 10 yrs younger than u how can u feel like u r still worth being with when u r so sick i wish i was better cause i just want to share and the very best i can for my family yet i need them 2 pitch in more n its not going to happen they probably r embrassed of me so what can i say .... except thank u n Have nice Day

Answer 1

True love goes beyond the limits of sickness and challenges. True love supports you through it all and it sounds like you have that. It is much harder when the man is sick because you have a strong sense of needing to be the provider for your family and you're needing their care. There's nothing much more beautiful than a wife who loves her hubby through anything and a strong family where the children love dad and help out through everything. There's nothing much that could help build their character and help them become better adults than taking some responsibility in life. There are some positives and I'm sure you're wife and kids aren't embarrassed. My husband went through postpartum depression and was temporarily hospitalized after the birth of our first child. Talk about hard - I was trying to take care of a newborn and heal from giving birth - all while visiting hubby in hosptial everyday - begging them to allow him to see baby and talking with the doctors explaining why he didn't need to be long term hospitalized and that he was going to get better if they let me take care of him. They did send him home and now he is well. Things can change for the better - don't forget that. Just be grateful for the wife and family you have and encourage and thank them alot. If I broke down or didn't show that I could handle it all for awhile - he wouldn't be with me now. But it was all more than worth it. That's what real love is all about - most people forget that it's what you do for another person - sacrifice, respect, longsuffering - not just the wonderful honeymoon feelings from your dating days and all that your spouse can do for you.

Answer 2

i am 27.my old man is 38.weve been together 8 years.we have 2 kids.i knew from the git go that he had a bad heart.i spent many days and nights with him when he was in the hospital.his heart fills up his whole upper cavity.i dont regret being there for him.im not embarresed of him.but since weve been togther hes used his heart condtion as an excuse to cheat on me.he knows i wouldnt leave cuz then no one would take care of him.he also blames his sickness on me.i guess cuz im the closst person to him.he is very violant at times and blames his heart pills.which is anouther excuse.i have dealt with it for 8 years.im saving to leave now. its not cuz he cant have sex more then 1 time a month"n thats when hes feeling well" i can deal with that, its because the way he treats me.i will still be his friend but his anger over his condition is really bad.so i spose if she loves u shell b there but dont take it out on people that love.best of luck

Answer 3

If the love is true ..it's sure to go on even till the death bed.At the marriage ceremony the spouse take oath to be with each other in both good and bad times- it's very easy to share good times but the real test comes at the times of trial.If u think you have been fare enough at the happy times ..you deserve the love and care at your bad time..god knows...history may repeat itself but the next time it is your mate who's gonna be at the sick end(what would you have done if u were in your mate's shoes.....just ask yourself and u get the answer to ur question)

Answer 4

Certainly ! that is why the family's are for. One can get sick, that is the part of nature. It is all depends on the attitude of the person. If you do have good relation and love each other then any problem or sickens doesn't matter at all.

Answer 5

It's not your fault that you got sicker and when people get married, they say in sickness and in health.

Do not feel bad because you aren't able to do things yourself. Just think would you stay if it were reversed? If so, then why would you question their motives?

Answer 6

im sorry to hear your sick. if she loved you in the begining she should love you in the end. through sickness and in health they say. love shouldnt end cause someone doesnt feel good or isnt going to get better. love is love and you cant push that away for anything. i hope you find what your looking for.

Answer 7

i guess i am to assume that it is a physical sickness...if your mate is still with you, apparantly she took her vows of 'in sickness and health' seriously...thank your lucky stars she is faithful...would you still be with HER if the roles were reversed? my guess is you would be there...can't you just realize you two must be a match made in heaven?

Answer 8

Were you ever really in love with her? It doesn't sound like it if you are ready to dump her because she is sick and are looking for rationalizations for it.

Answer 9

she said sickness or health and if your family really loves they don't mind

Answer 10

1800 call Jerry.