she is smart pretty and out of control. if i kick her out i still have to worry about her but if i let her keep getting away with whatever she wants its not going to work either .
2006-08-18 18:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by twiley116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would call the police on her, a few days in Juvey for being out of control could do her some good. It works...girls get freakedin there. And don't spare her feelings here...you are trying to save her life!
2006-08-18 18:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are parent training classes that may help. Not fan of Tuff love but that is one, which you might consider taking. Another one which strongly how you look into is called Parent Effectiveness Training. This one will help you decide who has the problem and it offers way to turn power struggle into more mutually respectful dialog. They both offer techniques that you might find helpful. With luck you might find both offer at a near by Community Mental Help Service. Check the yellow pages under catagory just mentionedParent Effectiveness Training has few different names, if you ask for something like PET organization will know what you looking for.Have only head one name for other one.Good luck brainstorming ideas that will help.
2006-08-19 02:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mister2-15-2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you are the one in charge, you're the leader. If she tries to argue with you, don't argue back. You are not one of her friends that she can say whatever she wants to. She needs to learn some respect. Also, spend some time with her, maybe even the whole day. That might be a good way of getting her to open up to you. Let her know how much you love her and how much you care. Maybe going to councleing with her would help, if not... bootcamp!
2006-08-19 02:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on becoming her friend and not a parent, convince her in a nice way to set good examples for her friends, and be the trend setter a leader, not a follower..... Remember you were 13 once, don't nag at her... It is going to take a lot more from you then what I have writen... A whole lot of patience, and understanding.... Talk with some of her friends parents..
gl
2006-08-19 01:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling, Sometimes there isn't anything you can do until you find out why she is so out of control. Once you find out what the real problem is then you can try to work on it together. Kids really don't want to displease their parents, so there is something that must be bothering her. You have to find out if you just don't have a relationship or if she really just doesn't have respect for you. Counseling will help.
2006-08-19 01:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by DJ B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter ran away when she was 13.November will be a year ago.She was living with her dad then and she was wanting to live with me.Do you and her father live together?I have been taking my daughter to counceling and it has done both of us some good.I feel as though we have gotten closer and I now know what all she was going throgh at her fathers house.You may want to check into that.At her age,she's going through alot of changes and she don't know how to control her self.Get both of you some help. good luck
2006-08-19 02:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dicipline her. I'm almost 16 and if i am about to do something that I know my dad will find out about i don't do b/cuz i know what he will do. Maybe the same thing will work for you.
2006-08-22 14:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by v.a_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's out of control because you haven't taken the responsibility of being her mother. Get yourselves in family counseling before you lose your daughter.
2006-08-19 01:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start making friends with her instead of trying to dominate her ,and when you are then start comunicating
frankly it sounds as if it is already late in the day for all that
you better work hard at it to try and recover the situation .
good luck
2006-08-19 01:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is bad enough you may want to look into one of those schools for troubled teens.
2006-08-19 01:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by EPnTX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋