Would he still love me? Will he think I'm a ho? Should I experiment, and if I do, should I tell him? Would his feelings/ego be hurt? I have had 1 experience with a girl, although we never had sex....
I am in love with him, and would NEVER dream of leaving him, and I don't want 2 hurt him, I'm just curious 2 c what it feels like 2 b wit a girl
2006-08-18 17:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by pooda_22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it depends on the depth of your relationship. if you and your bf are planning a life together then he certainly needs to know. and even if you are bi-sexual or bi-curious you should not use it as an excuse to violate the boundaries of your relationship. whether you experiment with a man or another woman it is still cheating. but if you don't think you can live your life without exploring the possibility then you need to talk to the bf and let him know that although you love him, there are some things you need to learn about yourself before you can give him your all. if he loves you he will want you to be happy. he may be willing to live with it, but if he isn't, are you willing to live never knowing?
2006-08-18 17:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by ŧťŠ4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 19:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys go for the girl on girl action, see how he feels about that before you tell him
2006-08-18 17:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was ur bf (and *didn't* know what you just said) and you told me, then I'd be kinda upset. BUT, if you were to tell him what you said on here, he might accept it
2006-08-18 17:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by justinfoogoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him , invite him, he'll say yeah ..and later you'll regret all of it ; but be honest let it hang out. cuz it's over anyway. pyscho rug muncher!
2006-08-18 18:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. He shouldn't think badly of you. He should accept you however you are. But if he does, you weren't meant for him.
2006-08-18 17:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. you just sound like another girl who wants to do it because everyone else is doing it.
2006-08-18 17:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you should say anything to him until you know for sure. I say try it you won't be sure until you do.
2006-08-18 17:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want my girlfriend to be bi.
2006-08-18 17:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to join in. he wont be mad. trust me
2006-08-18 17:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋