After dating her for more than three months, I broke it off. It was mostly my fault. We haven't talked in a month and a half, and my best friend saw her one day and said she looked really unhappy with him That makes me unhappy. I need her back. She needs me back. At least that's how I feel.
2006-08-18 17:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by Lukavich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See bro.... you are in a very critical situation and I am worried that you don't ruin your self. So you have to act fast and mature.
Just go and tell her what are your feelings for her, recall her the time you both spent together and how happy you both were together. Tell her what she means to you and whats her importance in your life. (Now, while doing this you have to take care of the "quantity"...i.e dont do over. Don't literally fall for her, maintain your respect)
Tell her that you care, love n respect her and still waiting for her and for the good times to return. Tell her that you will be more loving and understanding than ever. And dont feel low to aplogise for the mistakes that were comitted earlier those lead to your breakoff and she going to other guy.
Give her time to think if she wants. And just tell her because you still love n care for her...you want to tell her that, that guy is not the right person to be with. Dont tell her exactly why...let her think it by herself...then more she thinks then more she will understand what are you trying to say.
And just follow the rule of maintaning good eye contact through out your private conversation (you have to meet her somehow, dont try to tell this stuff on phone please).
Anways, I will sincerly pray for you.
Ya can message me for more details on Yahoo! messenger.
All the best.
2006-08-18 17:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by chocolateboy_4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out if you're just feeling sorry for her or if you really are sorry and understand that you made a big mistake breaking up with her. If you realize you made a mistake, start talking to her again. You need to let her know that you were immature in handling her the way you did, that a relationship requires hard work and you just didn't know how to do it then, but that YOU ARE READY NOW!. If you want her, go after her! Saving her is the noble thing. If you're wrong about how she feels, she'll let you know. If you think that you're the better man for her, you need to step and challenge her current sittuation. Good Luck!
2006-08-19 00:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by rick_james 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you go and do that for? Does she want you back? I think it will probably take a lot of butt kissing and flowers to get someone back that you dumped.
You could just tell her that you hate the way he treats her and promise not do do her that way if she'll take you back. It might be hard to convince her being as you dumped her in the first place and a lot of women I know don't appreciate that much.
2006-08-19 00:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go by and check on her one day....just tell her that you was worried about her....but let her know that you are still her friend and that you will always be there for her if she ever needed someone to talk too....and if she has any feelings for you she will show them in the long run....Good Luck
2006-08-19 00:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by lyn_x_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just told all the Yahoo users on the internet.
2006-08-19 00:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lindzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋