Ok, this question is for the 30 something bi sexual girls. i am woman in my late 30's and i am bi curious. meaning i would like to try a bi sexual experience with another woman. but how do i approach another woman? i am afraid of being embarrassed or rejected or someone thinking i am a freak or something. what would be a good or ideal scenerio. how do i pop the question... or somehow elude to my intensions without flat out asking.. and how do i know if the other is interested in such a thing? thanks for your help.
2006-08-18 17:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by jay b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are this other woman is bi-curious...She's got to be sending out some vibes to you. Approach her with a smile and look her in the eye...don't lose eye contact with her and don't lose your smile. Ask her out, on a girl thing like shopping - that way you get to compliment her(body, smile,etc) in the fitting rm.
Conversation is key...try getting to know her personally without sounding too nosy. Her personality will give u some insight on the chances you can take with her.
By now you should have some feeling where you can take this.
Once you've done that...be candid with her. Ask her if she likes girls.
2006-08-18 17:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by justme 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me get this right. It is YOU who is Bi Curious? Does your husband know this? If he doesn't then why does he want another woman in his bed? This sounds like he wants to have the best of everything. Don't be so stupid. This has nothing to do with your sexuality this is about him and his fantasy. Two women one man hell he wants the dream and you are prepared to let him. If you have these feelings for another woman and if you have a gay friend, male or female, sit down and have a talk to them about it and they may be able to help you with your feelings by getting you together with one of their friends discreetly to see if you actually do like to be with women as well. There is a great difference between curiosity and actually being bi sexual. What if it is only curiosity and your husband moves this woman in and your not bi sexual? What do you do then? Just let him move between your two beds pleasing himself?
2016-03-16 23:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm bi and most women have that curious thinking and don't be embarrassed because you don't know until you try it no women will rejected you because they might feel the same way and most likely they will that way . that's in every woman and your not A FREAK
2006-08-18 17:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have someone in mind then you make a humorous remark about it and see their reaction. most people that are against it will say so right away. My advice is to find a lesbian that has a little experience. It will be way better experience for you
2006-08-18 17:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way you would approach the opposite sex, calm and collected. Work on communication, and try to incorporate your feelings into the convo.
2006-08-18 17:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just approach sum1 that u know is bisexual or a lesbian because then of course they be into it too since they like chiks.
2006-08-18 17:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask
2006-08-18 17:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋