If guys flirt with you, & you know that you're not there type, why do they do it?! Should you just go along with it or not? What if they are dating, should you still talk to them if you are kind of interested? But what if you have trouble having a conversation 'cause you get nervous of what they think? What to do?
2006-08-18 17:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by blinkdan04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, it's casual flirting, not scandilous! If they have the guts to speak to you then right on! I personally would just go for it knowing it's a one-night thing, introducing them to other women[hint,hint, their problem] and joking like friends. If they are dating some one else, and walk up to you. Leave them, either without a word, or the comment "I'm so glad you're loyal to your girlfriend". BUt if you like someone and they are dating, my policy is to become as close as possible until the oppurtunity arises. A friend. Of course you must have patience if you're going to go with that. I don't see the problem in complimenting them though.
If you're nervous, I canm't help because everyone is different.
I giggle it off 1)with a joke of my own 2) without purpose, strangely it's the giggle that makes me more nervous and them either nervvous as well, or interested enough to cock their heads to one side.
Do Not Overuse the Giggling. I don't understand why but guys seem to think you're ditzy if you giggle too much.
2006-08-18 17:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Psychia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya go with the wave if he wants to flirt,flirt if he still have a relationship then ask a boy to pose as your bf n get back at him these guys r not serious about u so y should u be so serious about them dont be nervous treat them like a crazy mad friend or a nasty cockroach that could talk thats all if they get angry tell them y should they b angry they r not taking it seriously
2006-08-18 17:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by oceanaofthesea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soulnds like you have self-esteem issues. Don't overly concern yourself with what this person or that person thinks. You will get into a bad pattern if you hold these people that you obviously dont know that well in such high regard.U will leave yourself in a position to be used, and you dont need that, unless that is truely what you want.
2006-08-18 17:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should stop thinking of what they think cause... maybe they are just flirting for fun... just go along with it... but don't get too much into the conversation...
2006-08-18 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 03:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get along with them while keeping your distance for safety.
2006-08-18 17:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go alomg with it becouse everyone knows men love attention by women
2006-08-18 17:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by tater 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they're doing it to make fun of you?
2006-08-18 17:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋