How do you tell a girl to stop being such a whore, and to act like a mature lady?
2006-08-18 17:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by ]P ]I[ ]M[ ]P ]I[ ]N[ 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
just tell her. thats what i do. some people hate me for it. but oh well.
2006-08-18 17:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Joel E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly, I don't think she'll change no matter what. Girls who have low self esteem are usually the ones who fall into that catagory. Just tell her if she ever wants to meet a decent guy who'd want to marry her, she better clean up her act. I think TV and videos have a lot to do with the way young girls act today....they promote sex like it's something that is part of a daily routine with whoever and/or anyone. It's something that two people who have feelings for each other should share...not just hop in bed with anyone... Hope she changes...good luck
2006-08-19 02:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by mystery_lvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no real way to tell her with out saying stop being a whore and mature u kinda just have to say it some people only really respond to people who are stright foward or maybe sit down with her and say something like you are worried about the way she acts. no matter how u put it its not going to sound good unless u know her reallly well
2006-08-19 00:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by typhaniee0027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's the thing. A lot of young women these days seem to think it is cool or sexy to behave like whores and that it is attractive to the opposite sex...could it have anything to do with men who call themselves pimps, hmmm? It seems to be the trendy thing in the media and in music. First of all, drop the double standard. Then realize that they might be doing this for attention. If you want them to stop, then IGNORE them when they act like this, and reward them with attention when they act properly. Same goes for you.
2006-08-19 00:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by NA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop acting like a whore monger, and act like a mature gentleman. Then treat her like a Lady. If she doesn't catch on, move on.
2006-08-19 00:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much you care and that being so permiscuous is making you kinda not wanna be around her anymore. Tell he everything you feel, Like her beauty, mind, spirit..ect. show her that she is a lady and not a whore. treat her like a lady and maybe things will get better. She is looking for affection and attention that she is missing when she does act like a lady. show her you care by trating her the way you want her to act. I think she will come around.
2006-08-19 00:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by nicci p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she is worth more than the way she is acting even if it may not be true. Or you can use the fact that she's being a whore to your advantage.
2006-08-19 00:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by descartesprotege 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first you need to get rid of the double standard or tell all guys first not to be whores anymore. Then girls won't feel like they have to have sex with a guy in order for him to like her.
2006-08-19 00:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't just change somebody into what you want them to be, as much as you might want to. if you want a mature lady, then start by looking for a lady in a more mature setting.
2006-08-19 00:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell her anything. When she hooks up with an intelligent mature man she'll come around.
2006-08-19 00:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by gizzardout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to have more respect for herself and that being a sex object might make her feel powerful and desirable, but in the eyes of men she is seen as free puss
2006-08-19 00:12:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋