I was dating this guy for almost a year and then he cheated on me on Valentine's Day with one of my good friends...so we broke up...i saw him for the first time in like 4 months at a party last night and we ended up having sex...but when this happened all the feelings i had for him came rushing back...and now i don't know what to do...
2006-08-18 17:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So...if he happens to have a girlfriend, then this sounds like a vicious cycle.
2006-08-18 17:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it alllll depends on how it happened, what you guys said to each other...but he cheated on you. he cheated on you on valentines day with one of your good friends. why would you be with someone like that? you were being weak. which is completely understandable. but you have to be strong and i know it's tough, but you can do it. Does he want to get back together? because if he hasn't talked to you since then it was most likely a one time deal. get with your girls, cry, let it out. it's just going to take time.
2006-08-18 17:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is the intimate incounter you had with him should never have been allowed to happen... you broke up because you cant trust him, then later sleep with him... all this tells him is he can have you if he wants you, so he might as well play the field...
basicly he will hurt you again, don't let him.
2006-08-18 17:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on holiday. Don't see him for another four months. Re-read all the old emails, text messages, etc you have from him. Listen to all the songs that are special and watch the movies you shared.
Do this until you are sick of it all. Then you'll be ok.
Do NOT contact him.
2006-08-18 17:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by shiralee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like what the 2nd person said "once a cheater, always a cheater" but if u get back with him he will just break your heart once again and that is just going to make your life worse but that is just me i am just going to tell u to follow your heart!
2006-08-18 17:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Music35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're feeling isn't love it's LUST!!! When u haven't gotten laid in awhile u can mistake good sex for love. And if he slept with your good friend its apparent that your feelings don't matter to him or the friend. I say kick them both to the curb and find someone else to love you as you love them.
2006-08-18 17:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by cashmere3636 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, 1st of all, if you love someone you may always have those feelings, however you have to look deep down and see if you really have those feelings, or you just think you have those feelings, remember how you felt when he cheated on you? who is to say he wont do it again?
2006-08-18 17:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kayleighs Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he will cheat again. he knows what buttons to push to get you aroused. but whats to say he didn't cheat on a current girlfriend. he sounds like a player.
2006-08-18 17:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by niteman12c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh u need to find out wat he is thinking now...but if sex brought yur feeling back then there might be sum thing else behind yur feeling and why those feelings came rushing back like that..i dont know just talk 2 him..but maybe those feelings will go away just as quick as they came back..
2006-08-18 17:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by te quiero tanto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you, that doesn't say much for his character. Think about that and if he deserves to have your love.
2006-08-18 17:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋