I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend and I can't seem to stop obsessing over what went wrong in our relationship. We haven't talked ever since he found someone else but I still hope that he'd come back to me. He broke all of his promises to me also. I'm still young so should I give up and let him be happy or just stand my ground and interfere?
2006-08-18 16:51:24 · 25 answers · asked by Brittania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm getting over him. I let him know that I was happy for him and everything is gonna be fine for me. I'm young, I have plenty of time to fall in love again.
2006-08-19 13:14:34 · update #1
Time. That is the only thing that will help you get over someone that u love dearly. Sometime u feel like your heart is breaking and you cant make it, but u can. Start doing thing that u love doing and keep yourself busy, in no time at all u will say " what the hell i was upsetting my self about" Take it from me I went thru it and i am talking from experience.
And by the way it make you stonger as u move along life journey.
2006-08-18 18:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by precioustt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear....THINK OF YOU!! not him and you will go far. Let the fellow go and have his new girlfriend and you will get on and make a new life for your self! Start with what you like, what you want, and just do it!! Get used to being you, answering to you no one els and be single and love it. When you can say you honestly know what you want then it is time to move on and go dating ..there is some one out for you!But please why would you want a man that breaks promises? And don't think for a minute that everything that went wrong was your fault it took two to get there!! Please don't obsess..get over it and SMILE!!
2006-08-19 00:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-08-18 23:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hurting that you have now in your heart will pass with time. You said that he is with someone else and is not contacting you anymore. Then, I think, it's about time for you to let go because if he is still interested in you, he will be the first one to make the move towards your reconciliation. But that's not how it is going right now so he may be happy with his relationship with the other girl.
Just hope and believe in your heart that if you and your ex-bf are really meant for each other, at the right time, Destiny will do his share in making you find yourself in his arms again. If he is not the one meant for you, Destiny will bring the right man to your life.
Just keep yourself busy and have other interests so that you will not be thinking too much of him. Don't stress yourself too much over his loss because it may affect your health. Have peace in your mind and have good night sleeps with that faith in your mind that someday, somehow, it is Destiny who will show you the man to whom you will belong. Good luck.
2006-08-19 00:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur feelings for the guy is understood.....but Im sure that you will definitely find someone who will be true to you..Lemme tell ya one thing..never expect anything from ur guy especially when u're in relationship caz its simply not worth it....Just caz u loved him doesnt mean that you need to STILL love him especially when he has found someone else..Dont cry caz it happened..Smile...that this happened in this early stage of ur affair...What if he had left you in thin air after u guys were married...if u he cud leave u now..why not later...
Think it over....I knw its hard to forget ur guy...but dont u love urself in the first place? Y do u want to be behind a senseless guy who doesnt want to have ur love....C'mon grow up there is absolutey no use of crying over spilt milk right?...There is a lot more to be enjoyed in this wide world..and who knws ur prince charming(who deserves ur love) might just land up in front of ur eyes..
Cheers :)
2006-08-19 00:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by zooni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you he would be with you.....why is that so hard for people to figure out? Why do you waste your time wishing for something that could be but isn't? It is really a total waste of time.........it boils down alot of times to our big fat ego! How could they be happier with anyone but me? He's moved on so why torture yourself and have this magical thinking, because that is all it is. It is not real and it will not make you happy.
2006-08-19 00:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stop trying to contact him or whatever you've been trying to do.Move on with your life.Only time can heal a broken heart.Try spending time with family and friends so you won't feel alone,and when you feel that you're over him.Find someone else
2006-08-18 23:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is still a lot of men out there.. dont need to forget about him. but u can also go find some other ppl that is better than him. im sure there is a guy out there for u.. and even if he comes bak to u theres no guarentee that he might cheat on u..n lie
2006-08-18 23:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he has moved on so you need to as well. Stop thinking about him, he obviously doesnt think about you that way anymore.
Second, dont interfere! He obviously is controlling you by making you feel like crap while he is out being happy. I bet it makes him feel good about himself to hurt you so stop LETTING him!
Third, remember this for future refrence:
If they are willing to do it FOR you then they are willing to do it TO you.
good luck!
2006-08-18 23:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to him and if he wants to be friends alright then but dont fight back and try to get them to break up because then he will know that u still have feelings and probally wont like u anymore because u arent happy 4 him orur obbessed with him and he might think ur a stalker and ur wierd!!
2006-08-19 00:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by n dogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋