id been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, and everything was awesome, until he abruptly broke up with me. i was so crushed. i later found out that he had been going through a lot, and was trying to simplify his life. so, yea. that meant me being gone.
about 2 months later, he started calling me everyday again, and just saying that he missed me. we have been back together now for about 2 months. and he has been so cute and caring.. and yea. but today, he started talking about how he had a passion about something and he didnt know how to express it. and he was really depressed. he wont talk to me about it... i really love him and i dont know what to do..i know it only happened today, but im really worried..what should i do?
2006-08-18 16:44:34 · 6 answers · asked by kittylover61891 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's difficult for a man to love something out of his reach-- most of us only feel this way about women, but artists have been heartbroken over art, musicians over music. The love, whether unrequited or consummated, feels remarkably the same as that of romance. I'm not certain this is what you mean, exactly, but it should apply, because passion is passion. Console him as best you can, and help him become what he needs to be to fulfill this love. Believe in him, quietly if he doesn't think he needs help, but believe in him nonetheless. This passion is an important part of his character, and for him to ever be happy (much less content) he'll need to follow his heart on this. He'll also need the best company possible along the way, and due to the care you express in your question, I believe he already has that.
2006-08-18 16:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have trouble verbalizing what it is. He may not know what it is, or he may not think you'll approve, or he may just not be ready to share the whole story. Don't feel like he's not wanting to tell you because he's mad or something. He's probably just looking for your enthusiastic support for something he thinks is important, even if he hasn't told you what it is!
2006-08-18 16:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit quietly with him, and tell him you would love to help him find a way to express his passions, when he's ready to share them. That you believe in his abilities and talents, and that you're ready to help him.
And then wait....
2006-08-18 16:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by KansasDragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy.. let him know your always there for him.. so that he knows when hes ready he can talk to you. if he knows he can talk to you about nething it mite make it easier for him to come out and talk to you about it. wait a while and if still nothing try talking to him about it.. but, if he doesnt want to talk dont force him.. wait till hes ready.. hell tell you when he feels its time.. dont worry im sure things will be fine.. good luck
2006-08-18 16:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥OnCloudNine9♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you are there and open to his problems. When he is ready he will talk to you or maybe he can work things out for himself and just wants you beside him.
2006-08-18 16:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by mzduncan1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! itis a good thing the girls i am dating are just wanting to have fun
2006-08-18 19:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋