they hav been mean to me and my cousin. he and she called my cousin a emotion girl(but it is a guy)called me chickany fish sause(just because they think i smell like fish sause) i dont smell like that called my sister a big feet and called my cousin fat!! wat do i do. should i stand up and say to not make fun of peple.or should i be mad at them 4 the rest of my life.
2006-08-18 16:41:45 · 34 answers · asked by lil1teen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
People like you aunt and uncle get off on trying to make others feel small. There is nothing wrong with letting them know how you feel just don't expect some big oprah scene. Im a firm believer in you can't change others only youself. If you know that there words are lies don't listen and let them try to bring you down.
2006-08-18 16:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents.. They should be the ones to tell the adults not to act like children...Thats uncalled for even if they are just joking. Do not take it personal.. People who make fun of/or call people names, hate themselves.. This is a PROVEN fact. They are insecure and only feel good when they bring others down. You will encounter these type of people all throughout your life.. Feel sorry for them because you are better than them. Good Luck and try not to let it bother you. If no adults want to say something to them, refuse to go around them..
2006-08-18 16:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to them. Tell them that you don't appreciate being called names by ANYbody and that if they want to call you, your sister , cousin or anybody else rude names and not act like the adults that they are supposed to be then you don't want to have anything to do with them at all.
After that...it's their decision.They can either grow up or miss out on the good times that they could spend with you.
Don't EVER let ANYone put you down no matter WHO they are!
2006-08-18 16:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by ZEE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying your gonna be mad at them for the rest of your life is already childish, so no. I don't think it's kind to make fun of your own family, and I don't think you do either. So tell someone like you parents or their parents. Stand up for yourself and your siblings, but don't make fun of your aunt and uncle, as long as they are the older ones, most people wont believe your word against theirs.
2006-08-18 17:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you have some verbally abusive people on your hands here. I know these types, and asking them to stop will only gratify their sadistic urges, and they will do it even more, because they know it is hurting you. The best thing is to act like you are bored with it, or just laugh and insult them back in a very cheerful way as if its just in fun, just the way they do it. That might shut them up.
2006-08-18 16:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they think they're being funny. They aren't. Try not to let it get to you. Stay away from them as much as you can - if you're at a family event, see if you can mostly stay in another room from where they are.
When they make these comments, just look at them and raise your eyebrows. I know it's hard, but maybe eventually they'll get the idea that they're out of line.
Have you talked to your parents about this?
2006-08-18 16:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Judy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like they are targeting in on the things that you are all sensitive about. Don't let them make you feel small. I had an aunt who did this to me for hald my life. I say give them a dose of their own medicine. My aunt is very sensitive about getting older, so that is what I tease her about when she gets a little too sassy with me. :-) Good luck.
2006-08-18 16:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by sMpLy_Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What they are doing is considered child abuse. Speak to your parents about this. Take your sister and your cousins to your parents and tell them this is going on and you all have hurt feelings and you want it to stop.
I will pray for your situation.
2006-08-18 17:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by valducci53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, and have fun with it. Make fun of them too, do some really crazy pranks on them. At night when y'all go to bed, hide in the shower, and wait for them to go to the bathroom and come out screaming when they're on the seat.
2006-08-18 16:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by cornelius_joe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey dunt u wery cause i wuz in same sittyashun but den my ants an uckles wuz killed by a shotgun blast from unnown soorces.
2006-08-18 16:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋