ok im in 9th grade, there is this girl i like, but everytime i try to impress her she only thinks im a clutz and walks off. I really like her and i need some help, what do girls like nowdays? I have three sisters but there too young to ask. So PLEASE help me out!
2006-08-18 16:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by CrazyTexanGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not going to change. She just don't like you. Find a new girl and move on
2006-08-18 16:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and dont try so hard to get her attention. Look cute and cool but not so dorky and don't pay to much attention to her. Talk to other girls when she's around preferably a hot girl or semi hot meaning not so hot but kinda cute. Glance at her and then look away as if she aint nothin to you. Then when you see her alone in the library or somewhere walk by her and say hi then walk away. When you say hi do something confident like a do it smooth like say hi while you are still walking with a little turn. Shes use to you coming around and trying to impress this time act like she just some girl and dont pay her too mcuh attention. Then after a week or so of doing this go up to her out of the blue and say hey you seen this new movie or some movie start a convo and see what happens. If its not meant to be then move on.
Try feeding her with compliments if this doesn't work if you havn't already. We love compliments
2006-08-18 16:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie,
I think you need to go to school and just be yourself. Let her know that you like her and if she keeps writing you off like that then I'd say just forget about her for awhile. A lot of girls will secretly like you back but because you are giving her all this attention she is going to keep acting like it doesn't mean anything until you just brush her off. Then she will start noticing that you are not noticing her and will possibly come around. It's all about reverse pshycology. You don't need a stuck up girl like that. If that girl is even worth your time she will like you for who you are one way or another. As long as she knows your intersted then let it be and see how she acts when the attention stops coming. It may be she has an ego problem. Good luck with getting the girl. Just stay a nice guy and one day after she gets walked all over by other men she will be begging for a sweet, caring guy to pay her attention.
2006-08-18 16:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if you reverse this and act like you are not so interested,and be yourself around her,you might be surprised at her reaction.Always be you no matter what,the world is hard enough to figure out and you haven't even began tasting it,but it will come sooner than you think.There will be alot of girls coming your way,for now just enjoy being you in the 9th grade,don't try so hard to impress,you will ware yourself out.Remember your still young at heart and there is time to date and find love.I hope everything works out in your favor,Good Luck!
2006-08-18 16:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A desperat female...a determined guy will only ought to flow without, yet a determined female will supply herself to any guy that looks two times, and smash her repuation so badly the she might want to by no ability land a respectable guy if he's lived everywhere close to her.
2016-11-05 03:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we like candy and flowers and expensive resterants
but being your self is the right thing to do
anyway i m only 11 6th grade
school doesnt start till 9 days
and kiss the girl
if she is ready
2006-08-18 16:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by lil1teen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her give her the cold shoulder. She will start to come around you are trying to hard and girls don't like that.
2006-08-18 16:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...im in 9th grade too...i guess just be sweet. don't act like you're just looking at her physically. let her know somehow that you like her for her...or ask her friends about her and see what they say. =)
2006-08-18 16:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to impress her and be yourself. We don't like phonies.
2006-08-18 16:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ooga Booga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out from her friends what food she really enjoys and ask her out to a restaurant that serves it
2006-08-18 16:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋