Yeah, so it's kind of confusing. I never "officially" dated this girl, but now that I'm off to college, we'd be pretty far away (in the same state though). Anyways, I try to convince myself that it has no way of working, and that we're on seperate paths, and that we'll meet other people, but it doesn't seem to help.
I'd probably get jealous if she got a boyfriend, and I don't know if I'm ready for a new girl in my life. How do I get past this?
2006-08-18 16:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by Hermes711 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep yourself busy and stop thinking about the past. Tomorrow is a new day...and treat it as such! So you are not ready for a new girl in your life today, but what about next week, next month or the month after that. If you keep dwelling on her, you will never come to meet someone new. Let it go....
2006-08-18 16:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this girl, that feeling will never and i mean NEVER go away. You can love some one from afar. Space is sometimes good in a relationship because you can check out your options. She isn't going any where right now so focus on your education and see her when you can. I am sure the intensity level is high, you sound like your in love. Thats a wonderful thing, but how does she feel about you and are you willing to make a commitment to her and her alone? thats the real question... in can work if you work at it and the feeling is mutual. good luck!
2006-08-18 16:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i'd do issues to stay busy. For me, college about does it bc im a senior this year and faculty is wide type a million. Staying busy in the course of the week could help. i understand that having exciting on the city can value money yet you could flow to an previous friends living house or on a friday nighttime flow someplace the position there is stay song along with your acquaintances, or a football interest (in the journey that your in highschool) I continuously like those bc its social yet I nevertheless pay interest to whos prevailing. i wish that this helps. good success
2016-11-30 19:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by brodsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I laugh not at you but with you. I had a similar experience 30 yrs. ago, I was torn inside, I had feelings that confused me, then I learned it was my fear of leaving my home, of going into a new environment that was my real fear.The girl got along just fine without me.
Keep those sweet romantic feelings you have for this girl, who you say is not even your girlfriend, you will find the perfect girl in the right place.
2006-08-18 16:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by reido50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips and articles on this site on how to forget about it and move on
2006-08-18 16:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i know the feeling....its so sucky...n its like what if?? maybe u cod make it even tho u'll far...maybe they cod be sumthing...maybe that was "da one" sorta! ...in the end what is to is, must is! till then ..WOULD UNIVERSITY HURRY UP N START!...so we cod stop saying good bye n get on with our lives!
2006-08-18 16:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by i hate mosquitoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one snap out of it
2006-08-18 16:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u leave n find anotha girl then u will move on
2006-08-18 16:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you try to forget about her then you should be able to get over her ,or forget about her.
2006-08-18 16:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by princessfolleta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the future.. she will just be "someone that you used to know""........... knowing this WILL happen........just accept it now.
2006-08-18 16:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋