My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 months and when I told him I loved him he didn't say anything back he just analyzed it and tried to figure out what I meant. He doesn't really call and when he comes over he has no respect for my things or my parents and he can't keep his hands off me. Do I stay or go?
2006-08-18 16:29:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from a womans point of view when a man doesn't respect your parents he don't give a damn about you. Men are afraid of those three little words its just like saying lets get married in there eyes. Its easy to say leave him but I know its hard to do just follow your heart.
2006-08-18 16:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't stay...You don't go.....You teach......
Your boyfriend can't love you until he respects you, and once he loves you, he'll always respect you(to a certain degree). Let him know exactly what you think of his actions, even if it hurts him a smudge. When he walks into the house make sure he greets your folks if they're near by, make SURE he keeps his hands off you, cause when one thing leads to another....hehe.... But seriously don't let him be one of those touchy boyfriends, because that seems like the only thing he is doing. Last but not least is your personal stuff,it's the simplest thing of all, as long as you share everything with him, he won't have much interest, so don't hide it expose it. Like one day pretend like your cleaning your room or reorganizing, then go through your drawers and tell him about some of the stuff inside, till he has nothing to look for. Hope I helped :D
2006-08-18 23:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are but why would you tell a guy you are dating less than three months, you love him. You do not even know him. It is obvious that he does not even care about you. Why would you want to be with someone who does not respect you or your home. I think because you told him you love him, he thinks you want him sexually. Honey, do not waste your time. You seem like a nice girl. Stay that way. You will find another who will appreciate you for who you are. Take your time in finding the right guy. There are a lot of jerks out here. Do not lose yourself for a guy, especially if he is a user. GO!
2006-08-18 23:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by ADRIENNE S G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u mite want to go, u may love him but theres no point in being a relationship where love isnt felt by the both of u and if he wont keep his hands off u then thats a red flag rite there, he mite try and go further and not care if u say no and he mite get agressive too, so i wuld jus watch ur back and maybe b4/if u leave him, talk to him and make sure he listens, i hope its all ok and be safe
2006-08-18 23:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by dmntdchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is a little soon to be dropping the three little words. Still...if he doesn't respect you now he never will. Time to take out the garbage.
2006-08-18 23:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by vbplr_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. you shouldnt have a boyfriend who doesnt have any respect for your things, if he bugs you online just ignore him and if he calls you block his number and dont go anywhere you and him hang out at. if he doesnt stop bothering you call 911 for disturbance.
2006-08-18 23:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hearn the saying "why buy the milk when the cow is free?" You should never tell a guy u love him first.
2006-08-18 23:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should first apologize for possibly saying u love him too soon, but also tellhim that you shouldn't have to keep your feelings about him to yourself. Tell him to behave how he did before you told him you love him, because this won't work out. Trust me... it won't.
2006-08-18 23:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! he doesn't appreciate you. He is out for #1 and it is actually UNUSUAL for a guy to change much...If you don't like what he is right now...he ain't worth having.
2006-08-18 23:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by snowcrablegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kick his sorry can to the cirb and find one that really cares for me... if he doesnt respect my parents, well my dad would've kicked his can to the cirb along time ago.. and i dont like to be grabbed so he'd be gettin hit my me when he pulled that crap... i would go now b4 your stuck with him
2006-08-18 23:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by jesus_freak_forever3days2grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋