Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
2006-08-18 16:23:16 · 5 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
common knowledge...women are complex especially at that age i agree with what her mother says 100 % 2.common knowledge rumors are not always true so somone might have also said something about you to her that would make her get farther from you...my advice tell her EXACTLY how you feel and be patient the worst thing you can do is push her to make a decision hopefully she will open her eyes and go for you best of luck!
2006-08-18 16:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetie, since you both are still so young. Just make it seem like you don't care bout the way she is treating you. Act as if it isn't bothering you one bit. And everytime you pass by her be a nice friend to her and say hi. She will come around but it may take a little bit of time. If she doesn't after some time then she didn't have strong feelings for you afterall. Always remember there are more fish in the sea.....
2006-08-18 23:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by lyn_x_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg do you have an older brother. Honestly this girl is crazy bcuz if she had read this exact question she would fall deeply in love with you. I mean you are so sweet and after reading this i think that you should totally just back off of her bcuz she is just going to break your heart and you dnt want to go thru that. i can tell that you care ALOT for her and if she does have feelings then she will come around just dont push it on her. Leave her little notes but not from you from her secret admirerer and just do cute little things like that and if that doesnt work then just pretend you dont care anymore or get a girlfriend and that will make her jealous and she will come running back. believe me I KNOW!!!! good luck sweetie and tell me how it goes.
2006-08-18 23:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you still like her a lot and that you still think of her and tell her about all the rumors you're hearing and you had to know straight up from her how she feels.
2006-08-18 23:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her alot just like before and discuss this
2006-08-18 23:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by who 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋