weve been dating 2 months ago,but im worried once he gets what he wants he'd leave me,have u felt the same before? what should isay or do?
2006-08-18 16:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Green 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're not ready. Stick to it. He might also leave if he doesn't get what he wants. But if you do it before you're ready you will regret it. Wait and make your first time special with someone that you know cares about you. It's really easy to go forward and get more serious about a relationship. It's a whole harder to back up and slow down after you've done stuff. So, take your time and get to know him better.
2006-08-18 16:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not mistaken, once he gets what he wants, off he goes. At least that's the popular opinion of those who have experienced this kind of situation. Now if he insist on doing it, just tell him you're more concern on a lasting relationship based on mutual respect and understanding that love is the foundation of that relationship not sex. 2 months into the relationship does not constitute a lasting relationship. Tell him frankly i don't measure relationship through sex, but more on the trust, respect and love that is expected from that relationship.
2006-08-18 23:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Happyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally say no. I figure that if the person I'm with doesn't respect the fact that I won't have sex with him until I am ready, then I don't want to be w/ someone who won't respect my decisions, espicially like that. Remember, you ALWAYS haVe the right to Say "NO!" Your body, your choice.
Good luck !
2006-08-18 23:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by tydlywnks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a male point of view,if you are not ready, and he dosen't accept that.......dump the prick. If you think that he will leave when he "gets what he wants", you should not be together in the first place.
2006-08-18 23:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by rlmooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never say it was too soon, but I'm easy! That's the diffrence between you and me, so sorry I don't have any advice on turning down c*ck.
2006-08-18 23:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u think he is rushing into thinks and want to go at after u and ur partner actually feel that u love each other and know each other
2006-08-18 23:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by aznfobboytly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns, sounds like you're not only not ready but you're not sure of the relationship. And for heaven's sake, don't let him tell you "if you love me, you'll do it" crap! If he loves you he'll be willing to wait!
2006-08-18 23:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by sunni1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know how you feel, that you think things are going too quickly.
2006-08-18 23:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just not knowing if its right is enogh for you to say not yet you will know when the time and partner is right hunny dont give in if your not comfortable. he can wait i did !!!
2006-08-18 23:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by craig c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him your not ready.yes it seems that as soon as the guy gets what he wants there not interested any more.
2006-08-18 23:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋