why do parents all ways think they have to hang out with us to stop us from using drugs...I mean wether my mom bugged me to go shopping with her i would still hang out with my mom and trash talk her
2006-08-18 15:57:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
theyre overprotective and want to make sure were safe
2006-08-18 16:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well coming from a teenager who has had many conflicts with her parents (me) try to give your mom a break. I know I know easier said than done. She just really cares about you. Maybe she also just wants to have a relationship with you. I know I hated hanging out with my mom and I heard her talking to my dad sometimes how she missed having a relationship with me and how I often hurt her feelings (I never noticed). The older I get, the more mature I get and realize that most of the time I was such a brat and was so selfish. Im still a teenager, but I take my mom for granite. My friends mom just died and it made me think. I think all teenagers say they wish their parents were gone at least one time in their life but my friend never had the chance. She hates it when people take their parents for granite, because she would do anything to see her mom one more time. Just try to understand where your mom is coming from. She must love you A LOT. If she didnt then she wouldnt give a crap about you or what you do. Even though its annoying, still try to love her.
2006-08-18 17:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 and my mother is overprotective. Today I asked my mom if I could go to a night club with a friend . She said no . Moms just want what's best for you .
You need to be nicer to your mom, her life may be hard enough without you trash talking her.
One day you'll figure out that your mom is one of the most important people in your life . She will be there to guide you . If you are mean to her , you'll be all on your own and you'll regret being mean.
Blanche
2006-08-18 16:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so ignorant? Your mom, only wants to be part of your life and only wants to make sure you don't do anything you will regret.
I'm 17 and love my mom I would never and have never trashed talk her. At any moment your mother could be taken from you, she could die. And think of it, you last words spoken about her could be something really mean. How would you feel about that?! Trash talking your mother will not make you any cooler.
I think you need to majorly grow up!
2006-08-18 16:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're just concerned. you think YOU have it bad?
i've never been to a school dance. i've never been to a sleepover. i've never gone to a friend's house. i've never been out of my parent's sight except for sleeping and school. i don't have a cell phone. i can't go to the mall/movies with my friends.
but it's a bit disturbing that you trash talk your parents
2006-08-18 16:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are overprotective! they dont trust you" they are scared that you are stupied enough to deal with drugs!! try to let them know that you wise! good thinking! a Lady!! on the other side they care bout you! they love you! just play along and it will work!
2006-08-18 16:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a sign of Love man. Just be grateful that you have parents who love and care about you.
2006-08-18 16:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_airforce_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to prove them wrong get some pot and leave it on the kitchen table, just to show her that what she does isn't what makes you not do drugs it's your choice.
2006-08-18 16:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she cares about you. Maybe you should grow up and appreciate that you have a caring mom.
2006-08-22 07:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by v.a_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are trying to protect you for a good reason
Drugs like Acohol or other drinks can kill you
And other things as well
2006-08-18 16:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky your parents actually care, not everyone grows up with caring parents.
2006-08-18 16:04:22 · answer #11 · answered by supraracer87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋