I am currently involved with this guyand he is starting to scare me.You see,he has had more than one opportunity to have sex with me, but 4 some strange reason he hasn't made any moves.I've been alone with him behind closed doors,or all alone in the hallway making out with him,but he hasnt really been clear on what kind of relationship we have. I not only find myself wanting to be with him, I also want to have sex with him----BADLY!!!!!
I dont think he knows it , though , because i never ever let "them" know what I'm thinking or feeling. How do I tell him that i want a relationship and that i want sex while still holding on to what's left of my self-respect?
2006-08-18 15:57:03 · 13 answers · asked by bkempress718 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he wants to. self-respect is overrated.
2006-08-18 16:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first how old are you? Second maybe that is why he has not made a move on you. Men need signals, signs, and directions on most things dealing with a woman. He may respect you too much to try you right away if your not letting him know how you feel about him or what you want. Try showing more feelings or show more signals. It also okay for a woman to make the first move but be submissive with it not too aggressive. Is he married?
2006-08-18 23:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by ccsweet822000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I think your trying to move to fast. Give him a chance to catch up. He might be a really good descent guy. And if you dont treat him riht he might leave and find someone else. Not all guys just want sex atleast not without some type of communication. Just talk to him and see where his head is and if its not what you want move on. But if you can deal and wait it might be best.
2006-08-18 23:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by poohbeark19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling Yahoo Answers about this an invoking a stranger's advice---tell him what you just told us. Talk to the guy. Find out what is going on. The foundation of a good relationship is communication.
2006-08-18 23:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should sit down and express your feelings to one and other. Say what you want to say and listen to what he has to say. After getting the facts and info then make the move to the next step weather that be out the door or locking the door...
2006-08-18 23:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as females have other ways to satisfy our needs. Just take it slow, in the meantime hit a toy shop. Let off some of that frustration. YES U WANT TO KEEP YOUR SELF-RESPECT!
2006-08-18 23:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy solution.
Next time you have him alone, grab him, take him to the bedroom, and f$ck his brains out. If he is a man, and interested in you, he will gladly play along. If he shys away from you, then tell him to go f$ck himself. Or, hes gay. Take control of the situation or quit wasting your time with some jerk off.
2006-08-18 23:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by mojo2112x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what, he is probley a virgin and been scared to do this.
He mite be just waiting to get married. Or if he knows that you want sex he just don't want to ruin it for you and him, he probably wants to what until the rite moment because he feels that it should be special. Please don't abuse sex, in joy sex the way it should be.
2006-08-18 23:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation with him about how he feels about sex. Keep the conversation going and hopefully he will figure out that you want to do it.
2006-08-18 23:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll have his reasons for not advancing, out of respect for you, maybe. Move on further with him naturally. Communicate with him. Tell him you're ready for him. Check if he's ready for you.
2006-08-18 23:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he respects you or maybe he is a good old old fashioned guy who doesn't believe in sex before marriage!
2006-08-18 23:06:51 · answer #11 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋