I met a nice Christian guy in yahoo answers and now we are living together. He was a former homosexual. The problem is that everytime
before sex when I kiss with passionately--he vomits. I asked him--why?
He told that he ate something bad. But I suspect that the homosexual
demons haven't yet left him. Two days ago one of his buddie came(who happens to be his ex-sex partner but now a saved Christian) and I discussed the problem with him. I suggested that maybe we french and see the effect. That guy also vomited after the kiss. Now I am really disturbed by the incidents and feeling that the guys should be kept apart for the time-being. Please, any suggestion.
2006-08-18 15:46:06 · 24 answers · asked by christian_wondergirl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Please, this is not a religious or a spirituality question. It belongs in the relationships or gay & lesbian category.
2006-08-18 15:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by tomleah_06 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The problem, to me, is that you are on here publicly claiming to be a Christian, saying that you are living with a man, leading the general public to think, you are unmarried. I am not throwing stones, but you know the Bible says that unmarried sex is a sin... so first, take care of that one. Other than that -- if you are serious, and so many aren't, but I can't tell by your other questions, which are the same as this one... anyway, maybe you should skip the frenching until he has his "manly" self back for a while. Maybe the tounge reminds him of other sins...(Why are you kissing another guy, while "living together" with the first one? So many things wrong with this situation, or is it just the question?) If you are a new Christian and aren't aware of the sin, I hope you will read up on sexual immorality.
2006-08-18 23:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by savannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right track, but you need to do another experiment.
Get your boyfriend and the other ex-gay christian guy to come over. Kiss both of them and see what happens. If they get sick, then let them kiss each other (real passionately) and see if anything happens. Maybe that kiss between them will be the key to driving out the demons -- no more vomiting!! Don't be upset if they have to do this on a regular basis -- just to keep the demons away.
2006-08-18 23:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by SB 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, your boyfriend is suffering from a condition that has been cultivated over years in his life, maybe from his childhood. His flesh is having a adverse reaction to being intimate with a woman. I have seen what you descibed in young children. I have mostly seen it in children who have been sexually abused and molested. Your friend may have been abused early in his childhood. But you are right it is the work of demonic forces to keep him from moving toward a natural relationship with a woman. However, I got to say this if your are going to sleep together get married. God bless you.
2006-08-18 23:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i do disagree with the 1ce homo, always ...... statement. God can change anyone who really wants to be changed, but they have 2 b real when they come 2 God. but on the same hand, if u 2 r Christians, u shouldn't b shacking up, u know God wants us to do this the right way, his problem could b that he hasn't changed, he still may want to be with men, he can fool u but he can't fool God, that may be y his "friend" is still hanging around, and y r u kissing his friend??? r u curious, i hope not!!! sexual curiosity always leads to sin. U need 2 ask God to cleanse ur mind and get committed to Him and HE will send u the right man.
2006-08-18 23:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Martin at level 6 needs to get a real life)and as far as you ,ms christian ,you may have met a good christian man but you have not met a FORMER homosexual He is what GOD made him No matter what those Bible thump-er 's say They are NOT a Christ follower !!Forgive him for his denial of his true self and move on.Good Luck...
2006-08-18 23:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by barcan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way Too Much information:
Stomach Virus, Food Poisoning,or Mabye He Rimmed His Buddy while You Wern't Looking.
And Your Kissing WHAT?
2006-08-18 23:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by gregory g 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The guys don't need to be kept apart - they need to acknowledge the fact that sexuality cannot be changed. Once a homosexual, always a homosexual.
You, on the other hand, need to run like Hell as fast as your legs can carry you. Disassociate yourself from these two, because you all don't belong together.
You might also want to invest in some breath freshener.
2006-08-18 22:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
For God's sake girl. Get rid of him. Yuk! He's got problems. He probably feel for you because you look like a guy. Move on before the devils jump on you...
2006-08-18 23:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, wait, wait
i just looked at your profile, you are a christian that was saved 5 years ago. you are a single mom with 4 children ages 4,3,3 and 1 week old, you are living with a self professed "former" homo sexual that is still "friends" with his ex-lover and both of them vomit when they kiss you. before I looked at your profile I was going to tell you to runbut now I believe I would tell your girly-boyfriends to run, run fast , run far, dont stop running
2006-08-18 22:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, learn to tell the truth before it's too late!
Revelation 21:6 And he said to me, "It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment. 7 The one who conquers will have this heritage, and I will be his God and he will be my son. 8 But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death."
2006-08-18 22:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Martin S 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋