2006-08-18 15:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by shamira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been living togehter 4 2 yrs now i want my space
2006-08-19 17:53:12 · update #1
How do you know I don't want that??
2006-08-18 15:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by protos2222222 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, there's no other way to tell him other than just blurting it out. You need to be completely honest and tell him why because that's what he deserves. Plus, if you were in his shoes, I'm sure you'd want to know the reason why. If you are already feeling it's not a good idea to keep separate households, then living together probably won't work out, so you're better off getting it over with sooner than later. If he loves you and you love him, this will not end your relationship. If you're just trying to end the relationship, then make it clear to him.
2006-08-18 15:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you don't feel ready for that stage in your relationship right now, and you don't feel like it's a good time to be making a jump in commitment. It's a simple as that. Unless, however, you guys are living together already and you mean that YOU want to move out and away from him. In that case, I think it's only fair to end the relationship now before it gets any further and anyone gets hurt anymore.
2006-08-18 15:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him straight in the face. Things can't be forced or it will turn sour for th both of you. I'm sure he still want to maintain the relationship just as much as you do.
2006-08-18 15:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut and paste the words you wrote into an e-mail or word document, and print it out. Hand it to him.
If you do something you don't want to, you aren't being honest to him or yourself.
If he is pushing you when he knows you don't want to, "there's your sign" that he is too self-centered for a relationship, and you may be getting a mooch.
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
2006-08-18 15:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wots important is that your able to get the message across to him as soon as possible, dont leave it late when he may be looking forward to the occasion of moving in.
2006-08-18 15:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Phil-A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you need your own space and it's not right for you at this particular time. If he kicks up a stink about it and hates you for it, he isn't worth it anyway. Boyfriends are there not to understand you (they don't seem to understand women anyway) but to be there for you.
2006-08-18 15:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by ala_chica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer for this is: Are you into religion let him know that there is no way that we could live together because we will be sinning. Let him know that you been talking to your parent('s) and thy suggest that we should take it more slower than this. Make Sher he knows it's a sine.
2006-08-18 15:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make comments like oh i can't wait to get my own place.. i just luv living on my own alone.. there's nothing like a place to call ur own.. nobody to clean up after, no one to share the responsibitlities with.. noone mooching off me or laying around my place messing up shyt.. oooh i just can't wait..
then see what he says.. let him know that u want to experience living on ur own and that when ur ready for a roomate u'll let him know...just cause u got a bf that don't mean that he got to be living w/u.. hell does he have his own place??
2006-08-18 15:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By letting him know that you are not ready to give up your personal space as of yet.
2006-08-18 15:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it. tell him you arent ready for that right now. that is a big step lets take it slow. or you could say i wont live with a man unless i am married and right now that isnt in my near
2006-08-18 15:26:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋