wat would i do if my boyfriends friends that r girls r always flirting with him right in front of me and sayin"i love u" and "call me" and that kind of crap
2006-08-18 15:21:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that's usually hard to deal with. But there are several things to do. Being unbiast is quite hard in these situations. But try to talk to him. Let him know how you feel, but try not to scream at him as this will only create more tension. Good communication makes for great relationships. Tell him that you would like for that to stop. However, it is also important that you read HIS body language. Maybe they're just trying to get to him to piss you off or something but he's really not interested. But the best advice that I can give you is to talk to him, let him know how you feel and be open about it to try to reach a solution together and avoid further problems. The silence is only causing tension between you, and eventually it is that which makes relationships fail in many cases. As I said, good communication makes for great relationships.
2006-08-18 15:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by ChAr-LeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap! Not much-- HE"S gotta do something, and he better soon!! What's he doing letting them do this?! Is there more than meets the eye, here? You don't think he put them up to it, do you? And if so, why? Just a question, but one you shouldn't ignore right away.He has to tell her or them to CUT IT !! It's disrepect to you; and it's clear these girls are jealous of you, or else they wouldn't play little school girl games. He wouldn't like it if you let it happen to you in front of him! If it's because he's getting off on it because it feeds his ego, he's gotta grow UP. I don't think the girls would like it if you returned the favour to one of their guys either. Right???...? Tell him...or else your gonna have to find another "man" who's mature and doesn't play games.
2006-08-18 22:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by vortexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that this bothers you. Also confront the friends and let them know how you feel. If they respect you they will knock it off. Maybe they are jealous so be careful. Talk to him first then maybe have some of your male friends try it on you when he is around. See how he handles it.
2006-08-18 22:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what they are trying to do it not important. It is how your boy friend reacts to it. Does he continue and reciprocate the flirting or he just smile and don't react and make it known to these girls that he only has eyes for YOU. If he plays with him and get all touchy .. i;ll say watch out. This guy has no respect for your feelings. He would cheat on you.
2006-08-18 22:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I know!!! I hate this. Well since I go to a counsler for anger managment, I would slap them. Yup, that's what I would do. Don't get way over the top possesive just talk to your boyfriend about it. Just be lucky that your his! =) Good luck hun.
2006-08-18 22:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... If they are joking, I woudl shake it off... But you know, I would tell him that he should stop it. If he respects you, and cares about you he will at least attempt to get them to stop doing it and saying those things. Now, if he really dosen't care... He probably wont' even attempt to get it to stop... Now The question is do you trust him, and do you think that he may cheat on you.. Use your gut instint, because it's often right.
2006-08-18 22:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend should know better than hang around those dweebs.
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. If he doesn't change his ways, kick him out. Those girls just want your boyfriend, and you either need to show them that he's not theirs, or tell him so he can tell them to go away.
2006-08-18 22:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's with you and not them for a reason. He probably finds them annoying. Just tell him they annoy you, and maybe he'll find a way to get them to quite flirting with him when he has a g/f already (you)
2006-08-18 22:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by high heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them in their a** and tell them to f**k off....they'll get the picture. Or if you really want to get their attention, reach over and give them a big wet tongue kiss....that should really freak the s**t out of them
2006-08-18 22:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how he reacts to it...if it doenst bother him then just be glad hes not that way..if he reacts likes he likes it speak with him about letting the other girls know its not appreciated...if he still allows it if you cant take the heat get outa the kitchen
2006-08-18 22:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by jean h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋