how do you approacha guy being so shy and not wanting to make the your attraction to him so obvious? hes like someone you see in the hallway at skool but you've never spoken to him before?
2006-08-18 15:03:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just smile, making a guy know that you are open to invatation is the first step!!!
2006-08-18 15:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by O Jam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've never spoken to him before, remember that first impressions are lasting impressions. Guys like ego boosts - so a good way to make a good first impression is to find out what he's into and act like you think it's great. For instance - he plays baseball and he has a game coming up. Ask him - even if you already know - what time it starts, or where to get tickets, or something like that. Then throw in a compliment - like - "I've heard you're an awesome 3rd baseman. I can't wait to see you play" - or if you're feeling more bold - "I can't wait to see you in your baseball pants." :) Just make him feel good, and if you can make a joke or flirt a little - then it's even better. And make sure you smile. That's not too obvious - it'll just make him take a second glance at you. :)
2006-08-18 22:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by tootie_ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slowly. When you see him in the hallway, smile at him. Eventually work your way to saying "hi". You could use the old "tried and true" of having a friend tell him that you'd like to get to know him better. Go easy, guys don't usually like obviously aggressive girls. Show your interest in a friendly way.
2006-08-18 22:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-18 22:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not make it obvious? The whole "hard to get" thing is such a waste of time that most guys I know aren't going to screw around with - not when they have other important things to do.
2006-08-18 22:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A big smile, like you have just won a million goes a long way. Practice smiling at people and see what happens
2006-08-18 22:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhh thats reminds me of this 10th grader in my school when i was in 9th grade.. we did not have any classes together and i really did not know him and he seemed sooooo Shy omg...... so well me and my friends decided that i should bump into him by "mistake" in hallway...and did! we ended up having a very long thing........ lol good days!!!
2006-08-18 22:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 things caught up in mind , you dont want to show him you are obviuos and you are shy, this thinking will make you hesitate than making progress. have open mind and approach
2006-08-18 22:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hello, and follow it up with some basic conversation.
Don't make it that big a thing, but just start talking.
2006-08-18 22:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by CB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us guys want u to make it obvious. we want u to come strait forward with it. and come with an open mind dont be worrying bout wut we will say. cuz if u do u might not ever get around to asking. so just tell him and be urself if he dont like that then walk awaylike nothing happened.
2006-08-18 22:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by rocker87_2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋