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He promised that he would never cheat. I thought that he was different. I told him that I would forgive him but it would take some time. I love him very much and with all of my heart. Am I doing the right thing? I need some advive here please.

2006-08-18 15:00:58 · 45 answers · asked by starryeyed4love 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

45 answers

Leave him...he'll do it again...after he promises he wont.

2006-08-18 15:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It is very hard to forgive or forget when someone you really care about cheats on you! No matter how hard you try you will always wonder if he is out cheating when you don't know where he is. You have to determine if it is worth another shot, but it will not be an easy one. Love is a hard thing - but keep in mind if he loved you like you love him he would of never done that. Good luck!

2006-08-18 15:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by LaDonna J 3 · 1 0

You are doing the right thing but you gotta think if this is the guy you want to marry then you are not because dont no wowan want a man that cheats. Vise versa a man dont want a woman that cheat. Forgive him and move on, but before that you gotta think again would this guy forgive you if you cheated? Thats more then enough advice! Hope everything works out!

2006-08-18 15:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 1 0

It is really a personal choice wether to forgive someone who has betrayed you or not. One of the things you have to make sure about your decision is that if you forgive him and he does it again, you will be really hurt. Once he has cheated on you it will be hard for you for forgive and forget. You can put it in the past but if he does it again it will be really hard on you. You know you love him but is the love mutual? it seems like he doesn't care too much about you the way you care about him or he would have not cheated on you. If you feel like he won't do it again well like I said it is your choice but remember once a cheater always a cheater. My best wishes for you.

2006-08-18 15:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1 0

First of all women listen IF A MAN PROMISES HE WILL NEVER DO SOMETHING THATS LIKE ME PROMISING I WILL GIVE YOU A MILLION DOLLARS NEXT WEEK!!! Stop believing that crap please!! girls. You are not perfect and neither are men. He may mean it when he says it but he is human but he also has a consious too but no one should ever say they will never do something because 9 times out of 10 you will or you might. He deserves another chance I think but if he does it again its over!!! No more taking him back because he may feel that you will take him back no matter how many times he does it and you may need to evaluate yourself and see if you are beign the best girl you can be if so then you may need to move on

2006-08-18 15:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 1 0

the things that you have to ask is do your really love him, and are you willing to live with the pain that is caused by his unfaithfulness. The next issue is whether you are convinced that he is sorry and willnever do it again. If you do not feel that these are answered positively, then you should let the relationship go.
however if you decide to stay it will take time to overcome the stain and pain. Also talk plainly about what exactly happened (In detail.. and why exacly it happened. BE HONEST AND KIND!

2006-08-22 14:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by S Q 1 · 0 0

Honey, let me tell you something...you guys are only bf/gf and you are already questioning if you can trust him again?!! Don't do what I did and stay with a guy just b/c you are used to him and are too confortable to find someone new. You wanna know what happens....you get pregnant and then you are stuck with him 4- e-v-e-r for the sake of the child!! Enjoy your youth and stop wasting your time on someone who is a cheater!! If he did it now while you are young n hot...what do you think he is gonna do when you are middle aged and you have hit the wall?? He is probably only sorry b/c he got caught. Leave now!!

2006-08-18 15:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think you will find that even though you say you forgive him, that you will not ever feel the same way about him again, and you won't be able to forget what he has done. But you can give it a try I personally would think you would be better off not being so quick to tell him you forgive him. Do you feel he is really sorry.

2006-08-18 15:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1 0

If u luv him like u say u do forgive him. don't keep bringing up and throwing it in his face. That will cause problems. Don't go out and get revenge either because u will be tempted. know that promises are made to be broken. His a human being and we make mistakes. Some time we make the same mistakes over and over before the light bulb goes off in our head to let us know we have done wrong. Hopeful he sees how he has hurt u, and knows that you are a caring and understanding person. So its ok to forgive just don't forget no one likes to be betrayed.

2006-08-18 15:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by tanisha d 2 · 0 1

properly first of all each guy you come throughout the time of is calling for intercourse no rely how effective and candy they're. Its only of their nature. it extremely is not relevant what happens, if he's speaking too another woman like that its nevertheless dishonest. In my eyes dishonest is going as low as touching yet another woman whatsoever. it extremely is not relevant. If he did that then he's not worth it. i've got been with my boyfriend for over a 12 months and so a ways as i be conscious of he's in no way even talked too yet another woman on account that we've been jointly. yet it extremely is all him. yet whilst he has too galvanize his associates over attempting too be a solid boyfriend then he's not the single. i be conscious of ways no longer straightforward this is only too recover from somebody you like even though it does get much less complicated ordinary. do no longer provide up your morals for any guy. regrettably i had no selection as i become raped whilst i become 12, you nevertheless have your innocence so do no longer provide it up till you be conscious of for optimistic that the guy your with is the single. If the guy can not watch for then you definitely he's not the single. Its gonna be no longer straightforward on the start yet have faith me it does get greater helpful. yet once you extremely love him then you certainly can try to offer him yet another possibility yet lay down the line. flow via his fone continually so which you be conscious of for optimistic. And permit him be conscious of that. If he loves you sufficient he won't say no. solid good fortune too you!

2016-12-14 08:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Just because he cheated on you doesn't mean that he did it because of something you did or didn't do. It is just something that happens sometimes. Not that that makes it ok. You can be the best, hottest, and perfect woman for him, and he may still do it. Don't beat yourself up. Maybe you can patch things up, or maybe you can't. Decide for yourself. If he does it again after you decide to stay with him, then dump him. Good luck with that.

2006-08-18 15:14:25 · answer #11 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1 0

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