i just want to know for sure he loves me ...and if doing the right thing staying with him why he is going thru this
2006-08-18 14:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by austin-66@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him .... and did he cheat on his wife while dating you? If he did i would not care if he loved me or not ... i would stay away from him
2006-08-18 15:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by jus j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a married man for a year and he's still "going thru divorce" - not a good idea at all. lst he's not divorced yet and can keep stalling such that he'd be still "going thru divorce" in the next ?? or months/yrs. Yes, sure he probably loves u for now ..... until his divorce is finalised? But when, if ever? Or r u just his 'desert' for the moment? let's get real first. oooops : (
2006-08-18 15:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me you know when someone loves u, when u don't have to second guess yourself. Also, ask him. I'm mean be careful too, this man is going thru somethings right now. He could be serious about you are maybe a rebound because he's hurt. Just be aware of what you getting into. Love is dangerous.
2006-08-18 15:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by tanisha d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone while he goes through his divorce. His wife could find about you and what would it do to you (and him for that matter) if she used your relationship as grounds? If he loves you he will seek you out AFTER his divorce is final.
2006-08-18 15:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by GAB & R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a deadline on having the divorce final. My bet is, when you demand a deadline, he moves on. Right now he has his wife and you. He's taking advantage of both of you.
2006-08-18 15:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you --he'd be divorced by now. umm..you didn't have anything to do with this divorce, did you? you left little info. If you have something to do with it..think about if he will do the same thing to you.
2006-08-18 15:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by dam_i_give 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you just now asking this question? if he is married and willing to forfiet that on a you how long did his marriage last? and will you last that long with him. and i think he does love you for now at least but yeah i would move on.
2006-08-18 15:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is the time that he needs you the most! Show him that you are a strong and supportive woman! He will appreciate that more than you can understand............................
2006-08-18 15:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was with you while he was married he would probably do the same to you!
2006-08-18 15:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just another reason why you DON"T DATE MARRIED PEOPLE!
2006-08-18 15:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by RedC. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋