I am dating again after a little break. At what point do you let down your barriers and let people in?? When you start to think of a person night and day, but it has only been two weeks, is that too soon to let your feelings be known?? I don't want to scare her away, but I may be fallin??
2006-08-18 14:53:49 · 11 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is wonderful that you have fallen in love! I did not know that anyone did that any more! I think you should wait a little longer to tell her, that you love her! You could tell her that you like her alot, more than anyone you know, so much it hurts....etc....
but telling her you love her this soon, might as you say scare her away! Take your time, romance her, show her that you will treat her with respect and that you could be someone that she could fall in love with! Trust me, if she is the one, then you will know, probably sooner than later! Hope this helps, Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-18 15:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Take it slow. Nobody's rushing you to fall in love or forcing you to take a long break before your next relationship.
Seems like you start to miss this new girl. And may have developed feelings for her gradually. Hope it's the same for her. Meanwhile, maintain your friendship & don't blow it. Better to have a friend than not at all. Since you've been in relationships before, you can handle this courtship better than before.
2006-08-18 22:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
O Jam, when you don't have to worry about it, or think that much about it, THAT's the time.
have you ever heard Chris Rock's joke, "my representative will date your representative for three months." It takes a LONG time, more than two weeks, to establish the foundation for a real relationship.
Don't misunderstand, the "high" that comes with a new relationship is one of life's true joys. Enjoy it, revel in it, but realize that it must mature and evolve (and hopefully, improve!)
Take it slow, that's genuine. Too fast, that's desparate, and not about who you are together.
She's a lucky girl......
2006-08-18 22:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u never let ur guard down.. u go in to this relationship like it's a new beginning... if she hasn't given u a reason to mistrust her then just go w/the flow.. there is no time limit on when u should trust someone.. u'll know when ur ready to trust again.. just don't mistreat her cause of what u went through during ur last relationship.. just take what u know and have a good time..
2006-08-18 22:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT TELL HER YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HER!!!!!
That would be like Superman tellling the whole universe his weakness is kryptonite. Once you tell a girl you are falling in love...especially only after 2 weeks...you are her p-whipped little slave. You never want to admit that you are in love b/c then she will be the one with the control and she will start making ultimatums like..."If you don't do this, I will leave you" and stupid crap like that. I know you "love" her and can't imagine her ever doing you wrong but WOMEN ARE EVIL!! They will use you and abuse you and do ANYTHING to get their way. Dude, if you tell her your true feelings...you might as well hand over your balls to her right now. Play it cool and be noncholant, guaranteed she will be all over it!!
2006-08-18 22:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No honey you are not falling. You are tripping now and then. Yes it is too soon. Spend more time with her. Find out what movies she likes to watch, who is her favourite singer. Don't rush it the time will come.
2006-08-18 21:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok your a guy. I am a girl. WE wish!! you guys would come to us first. Be confident not too concieted but have some manly actions. Meaning open the door for her feed her compliments. Do it!! tell her. Don't hold back.
2006-08-18 21:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are falling...but it is you who really know if it is too soon to tell her, if you have a feelin that she also likes you a lot, then 2 weeks will be okay, who knows?if you are going to wait for a month or so, she might get impatient...but, if you think that she needs a little time, then you need to be patient and do things slowly...gud luck! :-)
2006-08-18 22:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
walk carefully
test the waters
2006-08-18 21:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell er how you feel
2006-08-18 22:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by grace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋