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Maybe how to mend or get over it as quickly as possible?

2006-08-18 14:51:59 · 52 answers · asked by starryeyed4love 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

52 answers

ido I just lonely tonight

2006-08-18 14:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok, here goes. I believe that when my heart is broken, time WELL spent will heal me. Not just the passage of time. If I analyze what he said,did and meant ovr and over again , a few things will happen; 1. My friends will eventually get sick of it all and start to ignore me. People can only take so much.
2. I will be stuck in a rut that gets deeper and deeper.
Sometimes seeing a counselor may help. I remember once that I saw one. I told her that I seemed to have a pattern , when it came to men. I wanted my bad habits, motivations or whatever word you want to use, to stop. I get involved with worthwhile endeavors when I am down. Helping someone else is great therapy. It is impossible to feel grateful and sad at the same time. I wish you the best of luck. Remember, we have ALL been down the road you are on. I will think good thoughts for you. I really will,dear.

2006-08-18 14:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1 0

No. I'm madly in love right now! But, the only thing that can mend a broken heart is time.

2006-08-18 14:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Love My Soldier 3 · 0 0

My broken heart just got mended, but if you need help with yours just go around people or family that makes you feel like life is worth something. REAL TALK

2006-08-18 14:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0 0

hmmm, enjoy being hurt...u have only two choices to laught about it or to cry bout it??? what makes u feel good? well it s good to be hurt sometime...u earn lot of lessons from it in the future...time heals and mends a broken heart.......just keep stronger and think of the positive things about the break up.....really want to get over it quickly??? hang out with friends and talk about " being broken heart" it helps to cease the pain when u spit all inside ur heart out......

2006-08-18 15:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by narjhianne 2 · 0 0

Everyone has a broken heart at one time or another. The best way is to have NO contact at all. Don't talk to anyone about this person or "spy" on them. Read self-help books and develope functional relationship skills. There are things you can do............if you want to.

2006-08-18 15:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Had one for 3 years after the death of my 1st husband.
Prayed about it and was given another beautiful husband last July.
Made a few mistakes along the way. Loved 1 guy deeply that lied, manipulated, struck me, choked me, all in the name of love says he. Yeah right.
I let him go, walked away, and am now very happily married. Good luck.

2006-08-18 14:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0 0

I don't know what to say other then depending on how heart broken you are it will take time and patients,however I also belive
that you shouldnt isolate yourself for to long socially.I think you should try to remain busy and not to sound like a bible thumper but you should confine in spirtuality also.

2006-08-18 15:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by ccameronbeaty78 3 · 0 0

my broken heart started a few weeks ago when my dad died BUT i cant mend it or make it go away. in time we adjust to things we learn to live with it.

2006-08-18 14:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0 0

Hiya hon' I know how you feel i went thru the same thing afew months ago'
I lied to my self for so long Imade excuse's for everything he did I blamed my self .
honey if you feel even close to that this is what you should do'
give yourself afew days and cry let it all out, then wipe your eyes for the last time because of him, get up shake your self off!
take everything for him out of your sight' and keep busy everyday and in little while it will fade it's not an overnite thing ok be patient
dont let anyone tell you dont cry he's just aman' they dont know how you feel. in the mean time surround your self with people who love you. and text me if you want to talk' I'm praying for you.

2006-08-18 15:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by coleman_debby 2 · 0 0

if you mend it you can break it again dont even bother. leave it broken. and let love vanish. you will eventually forget how it feels to love and that is a good thing.

2006-08-18 14:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0 0

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