What makes certain men attractive to heavier women. And I don't mean just a few extra pounds........i mean like 200-250 pounds. Are they really attracted to these women or is there something wrong with them or maybe they are insecure and figure these women are desperate. I am heavyset (190) and my boyfriend likes heavier women.......why?? He says he doesn't know why, he just thinks they are more attractive. Serious answers only please. thanks
2006-08-18 14:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by carla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beats me
2006-08-18 14:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a good body on a woman too...but if you saw a picture of 10 models naked in a line i dont think there would be much difference between them.
Large women appeal to some men coz of the uniqueness of there body...I also beleive that breast make up alot of the decision..this is what i beleive as i like bbw's as much as a model..i am not a freak just a normal fit athletic guy from Oz...hope i have been some help..
2006-08-18 21:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying to figure this out too. I am tying really hard to lose weight because I would like to meet someone and I'm not really liking the guys that seem interested now. But heck, relationships are really confusing!!
People used to look for heavier people because fat=wealth, skinny=poor. We are a wealthy country and don't have to work very hard physically--that's part of why people are heavier.
But still, I don't get it because I don't want to date a really big guy--most of them have huge complexes about their weight and aren't very nice about your weight.
2006-08-18 21:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by starspangledgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't a man like big woman? They are human too. They have a right to be loved. God made men to like a variety of woman. Love is in the eyes of the beholder.
2006-08-18 21:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because all men are not idiots. They don't believe into the hype that looks are everything. They aren't shallow or rude and nasty, so they can appreciate a woman of any size and be able to love her regardless.
2006-08-18 22:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u bother to ask the reason why he is attracted to u? u have something that captivates him? are u in doubt? stop bothering questions like that.....it wont feel u good....just feel being liked....and try to give extra confidence in urself......so what if u are a heavyset one? he just maybe doesnt matter abour your figure......he has something in mind better than that.......maybe he has the heart who choses to like someone like you.....u are still attractive
2006-08-18 21:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by narjhianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big beautiful women: means not having to shake the sheets to find her, she doesn't have to run around in the shower to get wet, and just having so much more of a woman to love!
2006-08-18 22:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a big butt and big boobs and skinny girls don´t(I mean really skinny)and if they do most of the time they are fake.Some skinny girls have a big butt and big boobs but only a little.And some guys like meat on girls not just skin and bones.
2006-08-18 21:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Thank goodness that we are all different.
Just be thankful that he likes you the way you are; you must have qualities that he likes in a woman.
2006-08-18 22:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Linda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they say a lil more cushion for the pushin lol lol maybe they feel more secure cause they have something to hold on too or maybe they thinks its about wheats on the inside that matters
2006-08-18 21:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by I know these things 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am 185lbs and 5ft 9" tall and my husband thinks I am too small, I think I am a big woman, he like big women around 230 and up, I asked him why? he likes such big women, my husband is only 6ft 1" tall and 188lbs him self, he told me that he said that they have really good koochie box and a hot box! he also said that their thighs hug you when your with them, he also said that you can really bang them good! so I hope this was helpful.....
2006-08-18 21:58:57 · answer #11 · answered by Mariam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋