okay so last weekend me and my friend get really drunk and i end up going to talk to my ex boyfriend. I ask him whats up and he said he is moving on and he wants nothing to do with me. i of course cry for like 2 hours. well later on that same night he tells me i caught him at a bad time and hes sorry and he wants to get back together. so i say ok and now i havent heard from him since. whats the deal?
2006-08-18 14:33:15 · 13 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems to me at the time he was busy with other things or other people . so then he when he was avaliable he tryed his moves on you and called. sounds like to me hes messing with your heart and mind. if you broke up before try to remember why that was. if it was a very good reason or not .just remember it happened. i dont beleave living in the past thats why its the past. and when you get drunk you go to people who have hurt you when you normally wouldnt.dont contact him. he isnt worth it.
2006-08-18 14:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by billie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is going to sound technical. Alcohol is a depressant-now, not in the "depressing" sense; what it will do to us is help us have a good time. But it will also have us thinking or saying what's really on our minds. You say you were drinking when you decided to go see him. Ask yourself, would you have done the same if you had been straight? Meaning, would you have still thought it to be an appropriate thing you should do, whatever the circumstances were? Okay, so even if you say yes, you still would have, then it still seems as if he felt bad because you were upset, so he changed his mind because of guilt, but really didn't mean it in his heart. This would explain why you don't hear from him. If he wasn't being straight up with you, he owes you an apology. Okay, so you were showing your emotions- but that didn't mean he had to lie to you and make it worse. Know what I mean?
2006-08-18 14:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he felt sorry for your bad feelings, has a lot of compassion, but, upon reflection, he saw what a problem you two have when together, and decided that it is a better thing to start out with a new one, and try again, than to try to overcome all the past trials and make it all try to work again...
You lost one very compassionate, but, highly intelligent guy. So, move on. It doesn't mean you are not very worthy of a great relationship. it simply means that it didn't work with him!
hang with some buds, have fun, and try again in a few months!
2006-08-18 14:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probley going through a tuff time cuz he has mixed emotions. Has anyone in his life or family hurt. Maybe u should sit and talk 2 him. Or maybe hes confused cuz he wants u but is afraid of going back 2 u.
2006-08-18 14:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Briana P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all why go see him if ur pissy drunk, 2nd if he says he's moving on why should that be a problem for u if he's already ur ex.. 3rd if u haven't heard from him yet then have some common sense and realize u and him r done, well ur relationship been done...
2006-08-18 14:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is he wanted you to take your drunk, idiotic butt home and leave him alone. What more do you need exactly?
2006-08-18 14:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sound like he thinks he missed an opportunity for sex.
2006-08-18 14:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just messing with you. Forget the past.
2006-08-18 14:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both insane.
2006-08-18 14:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be another bad time :) ,,,,seriuosly give him up unless you want a guy that cant make up his mind
2006-08-18 15:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by jean h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋