Okay girls. Here's my problemo. I really, really like this guy, who is in my language arts and homebase. he waits for me outside homebase and we talk face-to-face and in e-mails quite often. We're very good friends, in fact. I know he is not allowed to date yet, and I'm perfectly happy waiting. But I get super-jealous if someone else talks to him an dmakes him smile or laugh or something. How can I control my jealous feelings?
2006-08-18 14:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if he's not yours yet, practice a lot
your behavior can destroy this relation even before it's really started
guys are very sensitive in this point - it turns them crazy when girls are jealous without a reason
2006-08-18 14:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is scary, I am in the EXACT SAME situation. Everything is the same. Well, I don't have those classes, but anyway, I think that you should talk to other people too. Don't obsess. I used to get EXTREMELY jealous every time I saw him with any other girl, especially if she hugged him or made him laugh. But then I started ignoring that and I talked to other guys, my friends, went to get some candy, etc. I really didn't get jealous because I didn't see that happen as much anymore. And now, he even checks on me every now and then, and I hear he likes me. He's not allowed to date, but we've hung out anyways. Just don't obsess, and you'll see how things work out.
2006-08-18 14:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a way to control your feelings. If you have a diary sort of thing, you can write all your anger and jealousy down and you will feel much better. That always works for me. If he does talk to someone else it shouldn't matter, after all there must be something he likes about you if he waits for you after class. I used to have the same problem. Don't think about the negitive things when you see him talking with another girl, just think that they are just talking about a class project and the anger should disappear for the time being. Good Luck!!
2006-08-18 14:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Cecilia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh hate this junk happens to me ALL the time, i ahd this BEST BEST guy friend and we both were basically in love with eachother but both of us were WAAAy to shy to tell i ended up going out with this cruddy b/f who didnt care for me as much as my guy friend did. Long story short go keep your hands on him (not litteraly) but make sure uve got that extra special something that will make him STILL want to wait till he can, how old is he anyway?
2006-08-18 14:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to remember that he's not ur boyfriend but ur friend.. and he can't have girlfriends so u need to fall back and allow him to enjoy the attn he's getting from other girls.. u start acting all psycho and stuff and he's not gonna want u anyway when he's old enough..
don't start no unecessary drama...
2006-08-18 14:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have the same problem i have a big jelousy problem but you just have to say to your self that girl will never have a chance with him and say i am so much prettier than her...thats what i do and sometimes it helps and sometime it doesnt
2006-08-18 14:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by amwilliams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way to fix that problem is to go for the girl and then have a 3some
2006-08-18 14:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you like him and you'll be waiting til he dates!!!
2006-08-18 14:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by rossarysingerplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ignore it and if that person does steal him than get some payback
2006-08-18 14:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋