heres the story...my bf used to live in ohio and he was great with me..we were both in love and all that good stuff..just a week ago he moved to massachusetts where he had lots of ex gf and friends there..ever since he moved there his changed with me..now he doesnt call me, he donest have time, and he doesnt love me like he use to...theres a girl there that likes him and he told me he liked her but not enough to go out with her..i got really upset and started cryin...because b4 we wouldnt look at girls..all of his friends there dont like me...then want us to not be 2gether..and his soo different when they're around...when his alone..he says he loves me and all..and when they're there..his an ***..he told me to give him space....now the question is: should i?...is he playing with me or is he confussed?...i really need some help
2006-08-18 14:26:36 · 9 answers · asked by *Paulina* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM! What are you waiting for?! This guy obviously cares more about his friends than he does for you. Don't let him get you down, and show him that you can live out your own life WITHOUT HIM. Trust me, there will be a guy out there that cares for you as much as you care for him. You just have to find him. Good luck.
2006-08-18 14:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing ... when he doesn't even call you !!! I think he gets to know other girls in Massachusetts and realized that your relationship is a bit boring .. that's the reason he says he wants space .. I think he wants to check out some other girls !!! Then he maybe comes back .. when he realizes that you were better than the others ... or he will met a new one ... and break up complete ...
2006-08-18 21:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by T-Rex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear person in distress he is an ASSHOLE he is playing and think about it that is not the man u love. I man playing with a womans heart i a jerk and not a lover DONT even think that he is love with u or with any woman for that matter. COme on don't do this it is not worth it. Dump his *** like he wants to do to u. This is "romantic love" u don't really love him. There plenty fish in the sea trust me u can survive.
2006-08-18 21:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ziren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please he don't care about you and he sounds rather childish too, you mentioned he had lots of ex well y you think you can even trust someone with that kind of rep and living in another state? seems like he wants to keep you on a leash well tell him you ain't no Dog, that relationship is as good as over so i advice you to cut your losses start moaning and move on, it will hurt but trust me you'll get over it.
2006-08-18 21:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by devinelixir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYDAY MAYDAY!!!! ABORT MISSION I REPEAT ABORT MISSION!!! dump him like a sack of potatoes. if he and his friends are giving you all this crap, it's not a good environment to be in. and if he has A LOT of ex-es, he's probably not so good with relationships anyway
2006-08-18 21:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty time: Don't bother wasting time with that guy.
2006-08-18 21:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jenae, TV (tempter of the vile) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is that you need to move on because he already did.
2006-08-18 21:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by aracely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. he's forgotten over u.
2006-08-18 21:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he might cheat on you
2006-08-18 21:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by rsclflat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋