my grand mother buys expensive things,
for example, an air conditioner for a room where my family hardly uses,
we dont need it, but her excuse is always for me,
what is more, she often says that money is tight,
how can I stop her waste?
2006-08-18 14:19:21 · 15 answers · asked by Nao 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
kick her in the genitals and take her credit card.
2006-08-18 14:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alfred Y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking as a Grandmother, yes, I got married very young! My grandchildren are the cherrys on the top of the cake! I have all the pleasure of them without the hard work, I LOVE to spoil them, and give them gifts and surprises, I probably get as much if not more, pleasure in giving then they do receiving.
But more then anything I love it when they spend some time with me, take me out for tea or dinner, take the trouble to phone to see if I am ok! Little things mean a great deal. Got it?
2006-08-22 18:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to save it up in a jar for you so that you can put it towards something big (college, car, etc). She'll think you're being responsible and then she can dip into it without you knowing when she needs to.
Also, appreciate every minute of love and care she gives you. Grandparents aren't round for long and you miss them loads when they're gone. And as you get older you'll find that she's the only one who *will* fuss over you, LOL
2006-08-18 22:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoil her right back! Go out of your way to show her special attention and spend some time really listening to her.
2006-08-18 21:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Baxter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her that her gifts are very nice but.... they are doing more harm than good because you dont like getting gifts and it seems like needless waste.... And if she still dosent listen then set her budgie on fire ...
2006-08-18 21:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Spooky Mouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u feel guilty just talk to her about it,thank her for the gifts but tell her you dont want to see her spending her money when she needs it the most.encourage her to treat herself as well as others from time to time!
2006-08-18 21:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mistress j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this really worries you so much, talk to hear, sounds like she just loves you and wants to spoil you enjoye...
2006-08-22 05:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her and continue to respect, who knows, you may have your own special granddaughter some day.
2006-08-18 22:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her lots of hugs & kisses. Be grateful you have a grandmother in your life-She won't be around forever.
2006-08-18 21:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you appreciate her kind gestures , but all you need is her time and wisdom as that is what you will pass on to your own kids one day.
2006-08-22 20:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋