how do i find a nice man that will love me for me?

Question

please!!! advice!!!

Answer 1

LaToya J
Level 2

Please don't turn gay and keep trying dont have sex too soon and have personality and try new things have fun and stop worring

Go to church. You may find a good man in the club but if you found him there 9 out of 10 you will find him there when things are going to bad. Look for men who are by their self in public. Now about your soul mate, only god knows who that is and if you pray and go out and have fun and don't stay in the house alot on weekends then you may just run into him. Ask trustful friends to hook you up with a sensible man. Look nice and have conversation stay fit and be confident in you and don't be a weak woman. Stand up for you and who you are and want to be someday

Answer 2

Get a hobby that involves interaction with the opposite sex, be it kayaking, bike-riding, walking your dog, whatever. Somewhere you'll meet men with mutual interests besides picking people up; you'll likely see their 'real' self instead of their dating face.

Also, you're better off looking for someone closer to 30. Men mature slower mentally than women. Older men means fewer games, and an appreciation of personality over appearence and the usual facade that 'dating' imposes.

Nice guys are often shy and will not approach you, so it's all on YOU to ask them out. IF you ask them out, you pay; thats how it goes.

If you're looking for a long-term mate, stay AWAY from married guys or guys who already have girlfriends, no matter how nice they seem. This seems obvious, but I've seen this WAY too often; you CANNOT expect a man to be devoted to YOU if he;s not to the women he's with now.

Answer 3

is the 16 in your name your age? if so i would not try and date to seriously until your 18 so that you have some time on your side so you can take what you learn in the next 2 years and be a better person for it.other than that where are you looking? a bar will not contain a real relationship partner usually it can happen but not really. the best thing to do is to do what you love and you will attrach people that are as passionate as you to what you love and then you can meet real men.

Answer 4

don't look for him. women who "look" for a man are not high on a guy's priority list.

be an interesting person or pretend you are interesting and you'll be able to reel in a few guys at least.

believe in yourself, and you'll find the perfect guy for you. The trick is to not care if you find him because you have to be totally content with yourself before you can truly be attractive.

it's tough like falling backwards and trusting that someone will catch you. But it's the only way you'll be assured if you get the perfect person for you.

Answer 5

i used to be that kind of nice man but being crushed over and over by the ones ive loved just changed me into a cold man who will never love again simply because im not dealing with the pain of it.

Answer 6

This seems like a good place to start. Somewhere were you can't meet anybody. Get off the 'puter and go outside, meet some people in a social setting. Talk, laugh and maybe you will meet someone.

Answer 7

Leave America

Answer 8

expect that the man who meets these requirements might not be the most perfect looking or popular or succesfull . He may be just a regular, plain or even slightly geeky guy, Can you love him for Himself, too?

Answer 9

1.Be yourself, so when he does come along you are being you and not someone else ( w.e the hell that means)
2. Don't waste your time. If you know a guy isnt right for you, then kick him to the curb so Mr. Right will not have any obstacles.

Answer 10

I think you know what to look for, your just not finding it, or if you are your over looking it. My advice is to be open minded and don't judge petty things.