I want to do it and mom said tell me when you want to do it and i'll get condoms but i'm shy how do i get it "out there"????????
2006-08-18 13:48:15 · 28 answers · asked by Did You SERIOUSLY Just Ask That? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Write her a letter, and ask her to write back. It sounds silly, but when I felt I couldn't talk to my mom, I would write it down, and put it on her pillow. It's easier this way!
2006-08-18 13:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too shy to use the word sex, so you're too young for sexual relations. I know your body is telling you stuff, but you don't act out on every inpulse, or you would have pushed that nasty popular girl into the drinking fountain already. If you want sex because your friends are talking about it, heck how do you know, and if your friends were all talking about shooting drugs would you stand in line for your high? A better conversation with your mom might be "I need help controlling my urges" and perhaps what you need is a vibrator to quell those urges. Double good, you'll find out what feels good and what doesn't, so that when you're finally ready for a healthy sexual relationship you won't be fumbling about your body or shy about telling him what you like and what makes you feel good.
2006-08-18 21:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull your mom to the side and tell her that you need to talk with her about something serious, but you are shy about saying it and she will most likely know what it is you are talking about. If that doesn't work you can always get some condoms from the clinic in your town and it is cofidential.
2006-08-18 22:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom is caring enough to offer to buy you condoms and make sure that you are safe then you have a wonderful mother, but I know that this conversation can be difficult for both of you. Maybe try writing her a letter it will be a good ice breaker and open up that communication. Also kudos to you for wanting to discuss this with your mom, it can be a difficult decision to make and remember once you "Do it" you can't go back so don't be quick to give it up.
2006-08-18 21:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont be shy doing it is the best thing but of course if u know that u r doing it with the person ulove, dont just do it for the fun of it. I used to be very shy but when me and my boyfriend did it the first time I started to realize that I loved him and that it was the best thing in the world. Not because it felt good but because both of us being naked made me feel confident and I took it like a life experience.
2006-08-18 20:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by shorty Peraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to have sex right now? if you have to ask your mom for condoms then you are to young to have sex. why wouldnt you want to married and have something to give your husband on your wedding night? there are so many things that you can get from having sex even if you did have a condom,there are plenty of other things to do besides have sex.think about that before you make that big of a decision you probley will regret it later on.
2006-08-18 20:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did... Have your mom go to your gyn appointment with you and have your totally clueless doctor, come right out and ask you, right in front of her,
"So, is she using condoms?"
It was a lovely ride home... but at least it was out in the open. I hated her for being a narc but I was relieved at the same time.
Maybe have your GYN talk to her with you? The right way!
2006-08-18 20:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that you might start being sexually active and that you think you want some condoms just in case you are, so you will be safe instead of unprotected from STDs and pregnancy, if she says she will buy them for you then just tell her, she must not mind to much about you having sex, long as its safe
2006-08-18 20:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest not making it sound like a "plan." Just tell her that you are having some physical experiences, and you think that the "act" might happen... and maybe it would be best if you had some protection, just in case.
2006-08-18 20:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know its a shame that your hormones are raging but not your common sense and like thousands of people before you you will be crying in your milk glass right here wondering how could this happen to me. I don't know why they call this planet earth when it should be called the world of the lost........
2006-08-18 21:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋